My G/F wants to go for dinner with an old fuck buddy from way back when. Her & him + her friend and her friends old fuck buddy from way back when. A four way dinner date you could say, with fuck buddies from the past.

At first I laughed it off and said I didnt mind. Having thought about it, I really do mind! Should I mind?

How would you guys feel?

let her go.

encourage her to go.

then go out and do something else with other women.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

In other words end the relationship, right? Is that what you would do?

dont have to end the relationship just go do things with other chicks. make her feel the same way you do. and when she wants you to stop. stop. but make her stop too.

This.

What guys tend to not understand about jealousy is that over-protective behavior will NEVER stop a girl from cheating. If a girl has a low interest level in you and she finds herself attracted to another guy, she WILL cheat on you if she has the impulse to do so and is able to let go of her moral drapery. No amount of painful bondage will EVER stop a girl from cheating on you.

The ONLY thing in the world that will keep a girl from cheating on you is a high interest + investment. She needs to BE AFRAID that if she cheats, she is going to lose you. If a girl sees you as an Alpha, then theoretically, there is no reason for her to cheat. A girl has no motivation to cheat on LESSER alphas; only men seek variety because we were made to spread our demon seed as far and wide as possible (think back to biology).

Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, lowering a girl's perception of you. Which means, jealous behavior is almost INVARIABLY harmful to a relationship. If it lowers her attraction for you, it increases her chances of cheating on you.

I say "almost" because it's still necessary to draw the line. But this doesn't mean you complain about what she's doing - drawing the line means having a personal boundary and dumping her if she crosses it. You don't bitch and whine about anything, ever.

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best post ive read on here in a while...

generally speaking, a person will do what they want to do, no matter what you say. If she wants to cheat, she will. If you ask her and stalk her because you think she will, it will push her more into doing it.

If you try controlling her she's more likely to get annoyed and do something just to spite you. Let her go, when she gets back ask how it went, be light and casual about it, let her tell her stories. I wouldn't be worried- she told you she was going, it's not like she was hiding it. In which case suspicions should arise.

Hey Dude....You are in big prob... But dont worry its a simple nature of girl. I am girl so i feel that your prob.....

Just tell her what she want?? You cant understand her feelings...Just talk to her with loving nature and explain her how much you love her........