So i met a HB8 yesterday at the beach and texted her during lunch today
our convo went like

Me: Hey
Her: Whose this?
Me: Mat
Her: From the beach?
Me:If you wanna call it that (We met at a dock)
Her: Haha ok the dock
Me:yup, what are you up to?
Her:At my relatives
Me:What are you doing there?
Her:Boring stuff cuz their old but my cousins are bout to come over
Me:How old are they?
Her:17 19 and 20

Anyway it seems like i'm the one doing the asking and shes not putting any effort into it but when we were face to face we were flirting a lot what do i need to do?

The convo seems really AFC and quite boring.

Try reading this topic made by guesss

It's called "Guide to Phone Game. Use it, don't use it" and you will find it in the PUA Lounge.

Hope this helps and good luck!

i have some other advice on the top of my head.. take a look at my post first.. see if it helps. post your questions after reading it here.

guide-to-phone-game-use-it-dont-use-it-vt94759.html

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lmao.. wasted and i posted almost the same time.. i swear your post wasnt there when i started to type mine.. lol. good to know my post was useful though

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so your basicly saying ask her to do something? i think it may be a little soon but then again i'm new to this

also what are some ideas for a conversation besides the norm?

Be creative, don't bring up the regular stuff. You have to be different, she gets to text you. It should be a fun thing.

But continue this discussion in the "Guide to Phone Game. Use it, don't use it" thread, so we keep it general and everyone can easily access this information.

PU is mostly about getting girls. not getting girl. dont put too much value on her. there'll always be another girl just as hot or cool to game.

this casual texting thing your doing... its not cool. its needy and beta (in my opinion). it would be fine if it was through some mobile IM, like BBM or something. you're going to come across as a generic nice guy. you can maybe pick up chicks being nice, but this nice guy thing wont take you very far. you need to be different if you want chicks.

my advice. forget texting, you wanna make progress in this developing relationship with this chick. you need to do it in person. dont text for a day or two unless she initiates it. and dont be as keen as you were when you were replying. be alpha, funny, teasing and chilled. will post this on the other thread as well

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