I have been trying to review what I have done in the past 3 months with sarging and what qualities I must be putting out that allow women to find me attractive. I'd like your guys opinions.

in 2.5 months- I have kissed/had sex with 11 different girls. At one point it was 4 girls in one week. 5 out of the 11 girls I had sex with and there were three in there that were naked in my bed, but wouldn't go farther than that because of LMR and what not. So I consistently tried the, "I'll call you in the morning and we can all go out so I can get to know you better." I do that line in order to crack the LMR because it will break the feeling that they are being used for sex and that she will see me again. Or I will do the freeze out and they will also just go to bed like myself which is really annoying and they won't try for that previous feeling of kissing and what not.

My personality usually- I'm more of an asshole type of guy, when a girl says something stupid I will question her and make a logical response back to make them think about it. Normally I'll drop the line that she is a butthead, dork, loser to her during somewhere in the conversation then when she starts to hit me and what not I'll ask her to join me in a private location. Also my buddies try and screw me up sometimes by saying that I am a player and he gets with a lot of girls, but the girls seem to like it so I haven't really budged at my boys when they try to make fun of me. But then I normally drop the line when were in the private location by saying, " I can't even listen to you right now because I can't stop looking at your lips... All I really want to do is kiss you, but I know that I can't"....

My Areas of problems- Approaching is a problem, I normally will weasel my way in then get introduce through a buddy then out alpha male the guy with cocky responses that puts the chick in her place. I never really had a good approach. Any suggestions on approaching? techniques

I personally like opinion openers. But if you got social proof, definitely go for direct openers since you're the bad-boy I don't give a fuck type.

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For me to say that any female is a slut would be the most hypocritical thing I could possibly say.

Hey man,

getting laid is one thing, but how you go about it is going to play a very big role in the girls you end up with. Playing asshole game is going to bag you a whole host of hot girls with no self-esteem and no confidence in themselves. They may be hot, but they will still be low-value chicks.

If you try to out-alpha guys and cut their grass, a large number of women will simply lose respect for you. The women who let you treat them like shit and treat your mates badly don't exactly have high standards in men. And you probably should re-think your approach.

That's not an attack on you by any means buddy. It's an observation since I used to run asshole game many years ago to get laid.

As far as approaching. There's nothing more than 'hello, how's your night going' that you need to say. After that point you can talk about anything you want. I've heard people in the past claim that you can only do that if you're a hot guy, but that's a blatant lie, I have students using that line all the time. Once they can say it loudly with confidence, with a big smile, and the right body language, women will open up every time.

Otherwise, you need to find a style that suits you. Try to avoid anything canned like opinion openers or other routines. Otherwise you face the same problem of women realising you don't have the balls to just approach her without pretense.

Best openers are things that are situational. Look in the immediate environment for things to comment on. Look at their clothing and hair and jewellery. Is there anything that stands out? There usually is. An opener doesn't HAVE to be funny or witty, it's just a way into the crowd.

If you're standing in a bar line, state the obvious "This line is taking forever.. What's your name? I'm XYZ" It's not fancy, but it will work and it will get you into the set.

If you want to be more fun, then start thinking what else you can say situationally to make it fun. "Hey, I'm going to race you to the front of the line, winner has to buy the other person a drink"

But honestly, openers are only as powerful as the way you say them combined with your body language. So what you say is moot compared to how you say it.

Yea, thanks for the responses guys. Normally when I sit at the bar with a buddy of mine the girls tend to start the convos with me/him. Normally its after we buy a shot and they are curious about what kind it is. I'll tend to bust them when they don't know the names of popular shots and how they must not got out a lot. But recently this streak has been going very good, but I wish I knew exactly what I was doing correctly. I am told by my buddies that I say the funniest shit at the right time/ I also say slick stuff to put the girl in her place when she thinks she is hot stuff. That's only when the conversation gets going because I can talk all damn day if that is the case. I kinda get in to lucky situations when the convo starts, but I turn in to a pro when it gets going. I'm not like a straight up asshole, I just lay the law when it's needed and when a girl needs to get herself off the pedistule that all the other guys put her on.

yea your post was super good thats how it should go only be a little mean when shes acting to cocky

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