Girl I've known for 4 months. Comes across sweet but has a real sexy side when she dresses up. She was in a long relationship and said that both her and her friends won't rush into anything because it won't last. She has been treating me like her boyfriend on and off for months but won't go on a date with me. She seems to get alot of guys numbers but I really have no idea what happens after that. She said this to me....do you think it was a test?

"Its okay for guys to go and do what they want, if women do it they look bad. Being in a long relationship you have needs, but me and my friends are not like that. We are confused, because when you go out and you are not in relationship, what do you do?"

She smiles and says "you get what I mean" and I say "you funny" because of the way she says it. She says her friend has toys to take care of herself and when I asked what are you after and she says "I dunno"

She seems like a pure hearted girl so I'm confused. We also had a problem the other night we went out. She invited me to go out with her friends and as soon as I arrived at the bar she was chatting with another guy and looking over at me. We never really go to speak and then she left with her friends and the guy. She is upset with me that I seem now jealous, but she was txting and showing me love prior to this.

She then posted on her facebook wall a poster saying "somtimes people want something to work so badly that they can't accept when it's not going to"

We have had a few disagreements but get on alot mostly. She knows I want to be with her and she isn't ready for a long relationship, but I tell her often I will wait and I'm not rushing her. She posted that after an hour seeing me. Could it be the end?

Plenty of women out there, don't sweat it. I know is hard, been there myself. Which is why I love the freaking game. Shit like that don't phase me anymore.

She was triggering jealously within you. Maybe testing you. If you would not been phased by it, you would have probably hooked up with her. Should have sarge other women and let her see that you have no problem getting women.

Women look for high value male. If she can mess with your emotions, is over (love value male). Be non reactive.