This is a really long story but I'll try to keep it brief.
HBVacation and I met online several years ago and we never really talked much. Although we actually have a good number mutual friends, we never got the opportunity to meet each other before. One day, I get a message on facebook from her saying that she will be visiting Korea (where I live at the moment) for a couple weeks for vacation.
The first time we met, one of my friends was hosting a pool party at the Hamilton Hotel. Pretty awesome if you ask me. Make lots of friends and lots of connections. These opportunities come easily if you make an effort to establish good social circles. In America they teach us "It's not about what you know; it's about who you know."
Before we even get to the pool party, I test to see how compliant she is to kino and close physical proximity by simply hugging her, standing close, touching her arms, etc. She is very receptive. Excellent.
It seems as though I made a pretty damn good first impression by bringing HBVacation to a ballin' pool party, getting in for free, introducing her to my friends there, etc. After having some drinks (collectively finishing a bottle of Bombay Sapphire) and a lot of fun, I suggested that we all go to a hookah lounge.
Afterward, I bounced HBVacation to a club. All my other friends were too tired to join us so I had isolation. After a little dirty dancing in the club, we leave shortly after to go to a more quiet lounge to talk. Throughout the entire time so far from the pool party to the lounge, I screened her to find out as much as I could about her. I found that we were very compatible but, upon eliciting her sexual values and getting a good idea of what her mental roadmap looked like, I determined that it would be unwise to go for the SNL. Too much cost, not enough benefit.
The last lounge we went to was a very good place isolate. It had very comfortable couches so we were snuggling pretty closely. My main SOIs consisted of saying stuff like "I like you" and "I think I've got a little crush on you" after doing a bunch of deep rapport. I did not really try to even go for a kiss that night, though. I felt that we weren't really there on the compliance ladder yet. No pressure. I still had time.
She also has a boyfriend back in the US so that was another small obstacle. This was almost a non-issue because I also found out how bad this relationship really was. I really didn't have to do much in terms of BF-destroying at all. In fact, she hadn't had sex in about 4 months. When a couple hasn't had sex for almost 4 months, there is obviously something very very wrong with the relationship.
Two days later, we met again with another friend of mine. He called over his girlfriend and it ended up looking very much like a double date. While we were seated for drinks and stuff at two different bars, HBVacation and I were caressing each other's hands a lot. Plenty of IOMs there. Thanks, 60YOC. After I noticed my friend getting quite "friendly" with his girlfriend, I bounced HBVacation to the couch behind them rather than being right in front of them at the same table. After talking a little more and escalating some more kino, we ended up making out.
My friend's girlfriend got REALLY drunk. HBVacation made out with her. Fuck yeah. I told my friend to take his girlfriend home and to take of her. Now that I had isolation with HBVacation, I hinted that we could go to a motel together, but she said no. I took her to another one of my bars where I was quite popular with all the bartenders. Spending all this time in "my" territory where I practically reigned as king was quite useful.
If you've read any of my other LRs, it's likely that you already know what a "DVD Room" is. After we left the bar, she actually suggested that we go watch a movie at one of those DVD Rooms. After escalating a bit more, I ran into some pretty strong token resistance. While we were making out, her conscious mind prompted her to stop so that she wouldn't make a "mistake" or be seen as a slut or anything like that. I responded to that by going caveman and bypassing her conscious mental resistance through overwhelming animalistic sexual state. She started to respond very well to that. I got resistance when I tried to take off her top and her bra, so I responded to that by taking off my own shirt and she let me take off her top and bra a little after that.
I know that, the longer you wait to have sex, the less likely it will happen, but I really did not want her to regret anything that happened between the two of us. So, all in all I tried to take it slow and we didn't have sex in the DVD Room because I could tell that she still had doubts about how she would feel about herself if she fucked me. I left it at making out topless (and some dry humping) and that was the end of our night. I later learned that she masturbated that night. Giggity.
The following day we met up for shopping and sightseeing. I took her to Myung-Dong, a really awesome district to shop. We walked around and shopped while I used sexual state to arouse her the entire time while we did more hand-caressing.
Later, we met up with a couple of my friends from the pool party at a bar, plus one more of my friends that HBVacation had not met. Before we got into the bar, I asked my friend "who's all here?" HBTaboo was there. I immediately reacted with a "oh shit" expression on my face. HBVacation totally caught that and knew exactly what that meant, which made her crack up laughing. I told HBVacation not to feel bad because I wasn't going to be as touchy-feely with her in front of HBTaboo. I didn't want these girls getting jealous of each other and shit. "That's the virgin I fucked that I told you about," I whispered to HBVacation.
We later bounced to another, better bar. It was that nice lounge bar that I took HBVacation to before. It was me and 4 other girls. I'm used to being the only guy hanging out with a bunch of girls, but one of the girls asked me if I knew any guys to call. Who did I call? None other than Alexikakos, the CEO of the Korea branch of PUA Training! He came over with another male friend and a female model from Brazil. This guy is a boss. When he arrived, I introduced him to everyone and, when I introduced him to HBVacation, I said "she's the bad one." PUAs in Korea understand these code words as "this is my target."
The night looked something like this:
I'm the one in the hat buried underneath the girls. HBVacation is the one with huge tits sitting on my lap.
My friend and Alexikakos, big boss of PUA Training in Korea!
After that lounge bar closed, we went to karaoke. Then McDonalds. Then we all went home. I went to a motel with HBVacation. Then some awesome shit happened. For a girl that hadn't had sex in nearly 4 months, she was REALLY GOOD in bed.
So, in the end it took 3 days (meeting 3 times) to seduce her into bed and go all the way. Third times a charm, right? It would have normally taken less time, but not every girl is going to be so quick to seduce if you want to do things right. Everyone has their own story and their own unique situation. Other than that, HBVacation and I had a lot going on "romantically" that probably won't help most of you reading this
so I'll spare you all from those gay details. By the way, I'm TOTALLY crushing on this girl. It's a shame that has to leave back for the US pretty soon, but it's all good. Life goes on.
I also want to point out that I left her better than I found her. During one of our conversations, she mentioned that she really liked my outlook and lifestyle and that she really wants to make something like that for herself. I opened her eyes to a better way to live, a better chance to be happy.
CHAT
