Hey guys,
I'm trying to come up with a list of fun ideas for dates and just fun things to do in general with friends so I can be more of a social leader. Did a search and couldn't find much, so I'd like to hear what you guys think.

JonnySo1o

Well, recently i went on a date with a girl just playing putt putt and we had a blast. But let me make a short list

Paintball*(im going this saturday)
Putt putt, go karts,
Bowling
ice skating
beach (if your on coast) or lake
Movies (duh)
Alcohol + anything
Cards like poker or blackjack
Sports game( GO STARS!@!!!!)
Six Flags/Water park
Da zoo
Hmmmmm thats all off the top of my head

anything original that allows the two of you to interact a lot and have fun, chicks dig something creative, spontaneous or out of the ordinary.... Movies aren't good as a first date b/c you can't hardly talk to her and dinner is so lame, she can go to dinner with a guy any night of the week.
I like the idea of a cooking class or dancing lessons, first off it shows you're a confident and secure guy, you don't care if your boys make fun of you. Both of those dates keep you in close proximity and have a lot of interaction, you may impress her with your dance or cooking skills, plus a girl loves a guy who's a lil adventurous and will do something different than the typical dinner and a movie date she's been on a 100 times... It shows you put a lil thought into it. Do something original, fun, creative, cheap and socialble... Its a first date so don't blow a ton of money, don't buy flowers or chocolates, save that to reward her on the second date if the first one was good. You'll likely have a lot of first dates in PU so no reason to waste a lot of money on them... If you can get her to pay for the first date then all the better, it makes her invested in you and she'll wanna get a return on that investment, rather it be sex, a relationship or just a free date on you...

_________________
any Man can sweep any Woman off her feet, you just have to have the right broom...

dog park (really good if you got a dog)
sailing (if you got a rich sob friend)
backardi + bed (never fails)

_________________
a good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow

you can always take them on the 7 11 game. Roll up to a convenient store and before you both see the clerk, make her guess whether its a dyke, a perverted old man, or an Indian. Ifyou play it right, its a blast!

I'm a fan of pool playing on dates. Plenty of conversation and kino to be had, especially if you're a decent player and she isn't. One place I want to try and haven't yet is this place in town where you can go in and buy a piece of pottery and bake it/paint it yourself. I figure this would be a good place not only for conversation, but she'll get to take something home to remember you by.

LOL i need to use that. maybe tomorrow haha

Bar hopping is one of my favorites. Go to an area where there are several bars within walking distance of each other. Order one drink, and move to another bar for the next drink. This creates a ton of comfort with the venue changes.

As long as it's just you and her in a large city, there's no chance she'll start trying to make you jealous by flirting with other men. The only danger of that happening is when you meet her in a bar and her friends are there. I'll never make that mistake again...ever!

The great thing about bar hopping is, if you get a lot of kino with her, kissing, hugging, get her hanging all over you, that sort of thing, ALL the other women in the bar will be drooling over you too. She'll sense it, which adds pre-selection points to your value with her.

Plus, you can open all male or mixed sets, not to flirt with other women, but just to show that you have social value. This will build her attraction for you.

Another benefit of this date is you both start getting a little drunk which helps elminate almost all of the "first date" pressure for you and, more importantly, her. You guys who are going on first dates with no alcohol...I think you're nuts!

_________________
Later,
Alphagame