hello, first of all thank you for just opening this post and I am gonna warn you that its gonna be a long post so grab something to drink
first of all little bit introduction of me to you guys to know me better
I am an asian guy who lives currently in belgium for three years now
i speak english, dutch; tibetan, hindi,little bit french
my looks is average
my high is average for an asian guy
my age is 18
i am not the poorest or the richest guy around but i have enough money to buy food, pay my rent
i am still going to school
at school i m not the most popular guy and I am ok with girls
compare to other asian i am not that shy but sometime i am too afraid to talk to girls and most of the time i dont have balls to talk to hot girls at school
i am funny most of the time but sometime i am little bit weird funny
i am not completely loser with girls and I had girlfriend before and i am also not a virgin until now i have kiss with only three different girls
HERE IS THE REASON WHY I STARTED WITH PICK UP
its been three years i have been in belgium and its much better than where i came from but its also not very easy coz people here speak like 2 language french and dutch ok thats not the problem here
when i first came to belgium i used to live with my father but then i decide to live alone coz we got some issues , my father is very typical asian(i mean no disrespect for any asian) He got problem with everything i do and he wanted to decide everything for me by that i mean my future job and my future wife and their is lots of other bad stuff happen which i don,t wanna talk about so then i decided to live on my own so i can do whatever the hell i want
i was living alone on my own at the age of 17 and its very cool and nobody telling me what to do but i was alone , my friend come visit me sometime since the day i start to live alone i was free and happier than before but the feeling of not having girlfriend is much stronger when nobody is around you coz before i used to have step sister when i live with my dad but now if i came home i was alone their and it remember me of having no girlfriend more than ever sometime i stay home whole day if my friend were busy
Even when i go outside and when i see couple holding hand each other it makes me feel how lonely i am more than ever
So i started the pick up even before when i live with my father i used to read books about pick up but i was not that seriouse about it so when i live on my own my life was much better but its kind a suck in other way so i decided to change it
i start reading books like mystery method, magic bullets, i start watching video and pua artist show and watch lots of video about pua like adam lyons and jon sin, mystery style and then i decided to take a action about it and start going out to the approach but it was 20 times harder than i though it takes me 25 days to get over approach anxiety and then i have problem with transitioning and i started to read a lot about transitioning and then i go out again but its not really working and slowly my approach anxiety also started to come again so i kind a decide to give up but then i saw the pick up artist forum and i register on it and start reading the forum and for the first time in my life i believe 100 precent that pu is true before when its not working i thought that pu is just fake and its only for goodlooking people but on the forum i read the post of lots of people who have been improve and it gives me courage and the best thing i saw was the journal of afcdaniel and that makes me decide that i should do it
so from now on i am gonna start again with pu and start writing journal like daniel and hope you guys can help me and i promise i am not gonna dissapoint u guys
i just need you guys to motivate and give me advice and tips
thanks for reading until the end thank you very much

I don't really like helping guys like you who just want a girlfriend. I think it's lame and weak. If you want a girlfriend, then be a genuine guy and forget pick up. Put a little effort into putting yourself out there and meeting people. Do things you like and join clubs that revolve around your hobby: tennis, sculpting, drama, music, whatever.

If you want to fuck lots of girls then you need pick up skills. From reading your post I see what your problem is. You've read material about pick up and that helps. But what you really need to do is go out there everyday and literally approach hundreds of girls. I mean, LITERALLY, force yourself to open 100 girls in a day. Take 3 to 4 hours. Walk around and talk to any attractive woman you see. Even if you just smile at her and say hello and keep on walking you can count that as a pick up. Don't try to number close unless your really want to. Don't worry about your results. Just do it for the sake of improving yourself and for the sake of practice. Do 100 EVERY DAY. Now the question is. Will you do it? I've given you the answer to your problem. But are you going to do anything about it? I have a feeling you're not. But I hope you do. Now you need some material for openers.

1) AFC, I have to agree with Hobbit (obviously...I mean he's a legend on here). I realize you're speaking 3 or 4 different languages, but if you're going to write in broken English, try making it shorter and more to the point (read over it a few times).

2) If you're just looking for a girlfriend I've got the best bit of advice on finding one. Tell your friends you're single and you're looking. I've always said, "Every girl has a hot friend." Girls love playing MatchMaker and they can talk you up so you're going into the date far ahead of where you would be if you approach in a bar.

3) You've got to cut the, "I'm so lonely" act. Fun/Happy people want to be around other Fun/Happy people. Start posting cool things you're doing on Facebook and start acting like your life is awesome. You WILL NOT get an awesome girl if you're acting like your life is boring. [/b]

4) I sort of disagree with Clozer but only partially. I think Pick-Up can be far more than just the lays (though it's a real perk). As Mystery (a seemingly unpopular guy on this site) said, "It's not about picking up women, It's about building a better life."

Good Luck AFC asianboy.

First of all just wanted to say sorry about my broken english and thanks everyone for the response.

From now on i am not gonna write journal anymore but i don,t mean anything like i am gonna give up or anything, i just found beter and more suited way for me, since my english is not so good .

I am gonna do a lots of approach like clozer said but instead of writng journal, I am just gonna go to pua chat and ask other pua about my peoblem so they can help me. which is easier for me.

but I am also gonna post threat about the things where i have problem with.

once again thanks for helping everyone.