wondering how many dick she got between that time
every woman i've been with said 3 or 5 ... later i always found out it was more like 10 or 15... woman never tell the truth about how many guys they slept with ... random dick doesn't count either - at least they think so.
did she told you she's going to fuck this dude ? probably not .. she knows a guy for 2 weeks and is going to stay over at his place lol ... we all know where this is going since she already cheated on other people. all woman i know for 2 weeks and are visiting my place always get fucked or kiss closed ...

i don't know why you come up with these 3 points .. i don't know why you are defending , do you want to create the illusion she's some disney ice princes ? enough other woman in the world who are better relationship material..
if you didn't do it directly you have not set any boundaries at all ... with all people and especially in interactions with children and animals you have to establish direct dominance by direct boundaries. if you are not being direct you are failing to do so , there is no such thing as setting passive boundaries.
then explain to me why you are defening with so called number 1 , 2 , 3. you are attached to her and now you seek support to feed into this reality. you also believe her blindly .. believe me she had more dick... you will be amazed how many dick woman get.

you are being passive .. waiting for her to cheat ... dude when she cheat she will not give a fuck about you or your feelings. If a funnier and better guy walks along she will forget about you very quickly....95 % of the people posting here would think she will cheat , you can either be passive like you are regarding setting boundaries or you can LEAD and control the situation.
if you really have balls you do it now ... you make no sense at all ... why stick and invest in a relationship with someone who is prone to cheating.... waste of time and energy. You are stuck in a scarity mindset non-abundance... you probably are getting afc right now. Because there are better woman out there ... and you decide to stick with this cooking grenade , your choice make no sense at all.
she did with you ... people do not change in one year , they do not change that fast especially immature woman. she cheated before and she could be lying about other guys she has cheated on as well.... even if she cheats on you do you think you will find out ? do you really think she happily walks into your house talking about how she gave this other dude a blowjob ? believe me this isn't going to happen... if she does she cheats she probably cut you out of her life because she met someone more amazing ( her illusion ).

what someone did 5 years ago i do not care ... all woman i've met , talked with , slept with and had relationships with .. all woman who were traumatized or performed perverse acts in a timespan of 2 years did not change after those 2 years. its really a bad excuse to think people change over a course of one year ... yes you can change if something really bad happens .. if your parents die + you lose your job + you are having a disease like cancer you would change.

1. you do not know what she did inside and out of that time period
2. you believe blindly what she is saying ... people who are married for 20 or 30 years still lie to eachother.
3. you assume she will tell you

1,2,3 all are assumed ...

you sound like a passive guy heading for doom .. already you sounds AFC ....if you really have balls you cut her out of your life or at least take some action instead of creating this illusion. Believing someone blindly is AFC as well ...
if you really lived in abundance and if you really could get other woman easily you would dump her ass right now and get some better woman in your life .... why don't you do that ? insecurity probably....

you sound like the guy who will come back on this board over some period of time screaming out his girlfriend cheated on him and how he feels betrayed... if that happens i won't even talk to you anymore because it's not about who is right or not... it's about being a mature man and facing facts and responsibility.
like mack said .. this thread is getting retarded .... because it's so obvious what is going to happen.

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Come on Lode, don't hold back, tell us how you really feel
She does a lot of things at his behest, even though he is a stranger. She is either the most selfless person I've ever heard of, or you've got your blinders on. I can't tell which. I would assume you would be more accurate by saying the following:
A few questions: When he comes down this weekend, where is he staying? Surely, not at your girlfriend's place... Are you expected to come and meet this guy over the weekend, or are you supposed to stay away? Are you taking her to the show? Are you even invited to the show?

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i got to agree with the blinder theory, most women will act outside the norm when they feel they are living a boring life. so u need to go back to the beginging and build some exciting events. she will continue this pursuit till she is satisfied with whats goin on now. she wants something different. i could be wrong considering i only know what ive read.

She wants me to meet him. I have a guy friend staying over this week and me and him are heading off to the beach, I invited my girlfriend and she said she really wants to come, but can't unless this guy comes because she can't just leave him on his own. Hes staying at a hotel type place.

She said she wants me to meet him so I can see what hes like, and also so I can see that they are just friends. She asked him, and he replied saying he doesn't want to come to the beach, because he doesn't want to see me and her together.

I asked her what she was going to do, and she said that she wasn't sure, and that she'd have to choose. I guess this is the test, if she chooses me and comes to the beach with me, it's fine, if she chooses him and doesn't come to the beach, it's over.

nonsense ... either he wants to get into her pants and she agrees... or she is just making up a excuse to avoid you meeting him...one thing is for sure , he want to get into her pants.
she is saying she does not want to miss the opportunity into meeting him 1 on 1 ... i mean he's old enough to take care of himself and he probably got other friends tagging along as well ( band members etc).

what a woman says and htinks are both 2 different things and you should always look for the underlying context ... if she is saying she can't leave him on his own you probably know enough. i mean what is wrong ? .. she can invite this guy go with your whole squad to the beach right ? first of all she wants you to meet hem and suddenly she pulls back by telling you he doesn't want to see you 2 together.

she is lying....

they are probably going to cheat.. at least she thought about it ...why does she even care what he thinks ? she should care about what you think!
just ask in normal way what she's going to do.... if she visits this guy you need to dump her hardcore ... delete everything about her and don't contact her ... just ignore her for the rest of her life. don't even tell her you are going to dump her .. if she turns out to be total trash you shouldn't invest one second in talking to her.
throw this bitch of the bridge... grab a unfamiliar HB 10 and throw her on danz his lap. total win....

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Wait, so he is going to be all butt-hurt that a girl who already has a boyfriend... hangs out with the boyfriend???

And... that is the reason why she might not come to the beach? Because stranger guy doesn't want to see you two together? She is making concessions for a stranger. Weird. Have you talked to her about how bizarre this is?



Yeah, that makes no sense. I have to agree with Lode, she is playing with you. Either that, or she is a weirdo.

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Yeeeeeeeeeessshhhh.

Listen to Wal & Lode - you are overrationalising her ridiculous behaviour, you are lying to yourself.

She wants to get fucked by this guy, she is trying to create plausible deniability for herself.

This guy blatantly wants to ball her - he's got a dick after all - that whole 'he doesn't want to see her with her boyfriend' HAHHAHA FUCK THAT - he's a snake.

Wildcard speculation from me now: you say she met this guy online 2 weeks ago and there was no prior contact? This a fact or just what you think?

She texts this guy to sleep as he has trouble sleeping?? After 2 WEEKS??? What is this nonsense??? Is he a child? Mentally impaired?

Do yourself a favour - drop this girl. Do not even attempt to speak of this nonsense again. LEAVE it. Find others.

It might sting a little at first, but trust me, it'll hurt a lot less than getting this shit week in week out and then realising too late that she's got a vagina like a wizard's sleeve from all the other dick she took.

there's no problem with her going to see her "friend", you should go with her.

that's what friends do.

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You're right guys, I know you are. Upon talking to her last night, I felt a lot better. She said that he was crying on webcam because she had been talking about me.

Last night after she'd fallen asleep, I sent her a long dirty text telling her all the things I was going to do to her. This morning there was no reply, and I found out that she had decided not to reply because she was texting this guy.

I'm going to break up with her today.

don't even dignify her behavior with a breakup.

just cut all contact.

and stick with it.

teach her a lesson.

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no don't break up with her ... just break off all contact .. never talk to her ever again ...

breaking up and talking to her about it will only justify everything .. just like mack said.

if you dump her it will be even more easier to fuck this guy ... if you don't talk to her from now on she will feel more guilt when she's doing this guy.

don't give her more excuses to feel less responsible.

she needs to be punished.. she did hurt your feelings - there is no reason for being nice to her.

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I second (third??) the motion of Mack and Lode.

Danzella... dude. Sorry.

I don't know what happened in your relationship to make her attracted to a guy who was crying because she was talking about you (I'm laughing my ass off here even though I feel bad for you) but at least you know getting rid of this girl is the right thing to do.

GFTOW mate.

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yeah man, I too am laughing my arse off at this blubbering gimp The girl is gonna get soooooooooooooooooooooo bored of this bitch once she realises that he has no balls and grows tired of him being her plaything...when she inevitably comes calling you...ignore.

Haha yeah. Well I did go around to her house today, we talked about everything, she thought I was leaving her and she cried. I fucked her, then I left.

I thought I may as well get some emotional sex before I cut off all contact, which is exactly what I'm going to do now.