Yesterday I got a number from this HB7 (i'm still very new to this) and we were dancing and flirting most of the evening. It was a party in a dance bar and all went well.
She gave me her number and went home. Now, I want this to be just a one-night stand nothing more.. how do I do that? when do I call her? Do I tell her that? What if she starts with the "where is it going?" bullsh!t ? can use some help guys thanks.

Ok I gotta edit this... I just saw my facebook page and the girl that I didnt flirt with.. the one that went home with her... her friend... the one I didn't close sent me a msg "waiting to see you again" now wtf am I doing now???

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I could really use some help guys.

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im not sure on this, but i think you may have missed the boat, from what i know a one night stand tends to happen on the night... but i could be wrong...

see what everyone else has to say on it though. sorry i couldnt be much help

Sheps

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thanks sheps... as you said it didn't really help me but I did want to ask another thing..
how come there are 55 views on this thread and only 1 guy had anything to say about it.. I really need to know what you guys think I should do.. or is this forum for only people to look at other peoples problems and see what things other people offer them and use it for themselves?

thought that there will be abit more help here. and i don't think i posted this thread where I shouldn't have.

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Hey dude I think sheps is right, and it sucks but unless you get into a similar situation its unlikely to happen

Okay, here's my 5 cents.

First off - you got 2 girls.. one of them you flirted with and show response and the other that you didn't flirt is into you.

Girls talk with eachother a lot so the one you flirted with prolly knows the other likes you.. so she will be a bit of "careful" to do something with you alone because she doesn't want her friend to be hurt.

Take them both out together, have a great time. Focus on the one that wants you and give a bit of special attention to the one you flirted with before.. then judge & evaluate which one you like the most!

Have fun !

≠ LD

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Well, you can lead with a ''friends with benefits'' suggestion, if you're feeling brave about it.

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First of all, you didn't sarge the lesser of the two, you sarged the hb 7. So don't lose your focus and don't worry about the friend. Keep it light with her friend, but don't actually text or message anything that would give her the idea your interested. Talk to her about things like, " what are you doing this weekend?" or like lyric says invite them both out to do something, but still focus on hb 7 to get a better feel of where your at. As for the one night stand, mystery says it takes a cumulative time (whether it be talking on the phone/texting/facebook messaging) of about 7 hours before a girl is ready to sleep with you, and i gotta say that average is pretty accurate. Now you get better at it, but once you get what you want you can just go out the next night and sarge again. Don't sweat the girls, tell her you had fun and slowly talk to her less and less after. She texts don't text back, or maybe just text once a day, eventually they'll get tired of texting and you've all ready got another one lined up hope this helps

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Cant tell you how much i agree with this guy!