couple nights ago my buddy and I went to a local college party to try and game. We got there and the room was filled with mostly 5.5s-6 at best. Finally a few HB7s start showing up so we decided to game them. HB is talking to a friend so I go and open the set. I tell the girls that HB looks like trouble and they should avoid her. The girls all chime in "We Like trouble!" I make conversation, neg the HB, I even punish her by closing her out of the set but making sure to pull her back in. Eventually she is sending me IOIs like crazy. I have some what isolated her by now (her friends moved to a new set.) And she tells me, "Lets go inside where its warmer and quieter."

Naturally a real PUA would have noticed this as a great IOI and probably done something about it. but me I decided I didn't want her to control the situation and said No I'm going to stay out here I like it.

Well she stayed with me but I had already lost. I ended up Facebook closing (if you can call that closing) and my wing went in and ended up number closing.

The moral of the story is- When life hands you strawberries EAT THEM before they go bad.

damn you missed it, she wanted alone time with you, hopefully and you shot it down

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Hey guys im new into this PUA stuff. But let me ask you, if you followed her to the place she wanted to go, didnt you let her take control? Wouldnt you demonstrate lower value?

ok - so heres how i would have dealt with this scenario
2 diff. ways depending on my read on it at the time (if i was actually there in the interaction and had more info etc....)

RESPONSE #1: Me: "Hey I'm not that easy! (in c/f manner with smirk)" then talk to her a bit longer ... THEN say "ok lets get outa here". Therefore ur not denying her straight out by saying i mean basically ur telling the girl - id rather stand out here like a d-bag then make out with u right now
SO - my response above stops her from reading it that way AND allows u to have control by then saying lets go in a few minutes later into the convo
RESPONSE #2 Me: "yeah it's friggen cold out here, and i wanted to get another drink (food, sit-down, watch movie, etc.) anyways."

this would be my reply if felt like i needed to bounce now. Like in a previous post today - if a girl says do u have a condom U GET IT.
u already picked her up - sometimes if she wants to make the "lets have sex/make-out right now move".... sometimes ill let it happen. I think thats hot anyway.

But like i said - it depends on the girl - and my read on what would have the best chance of a close. Also whether this is a one-night thing or if i want more than that.

if all i wanted was a one-nighter - ill let the girl close - i just want some sex.

and game over
besides us men always have the power to take control once we are in the bedroom

cheers

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