Im just getting started in the Art of the game. I guess i'll post my happenings here in a view to improve myself and also provide me with motivation as in opening and talking to people so i have something to report back.
I need to set up some goals ofcourse so firstly it is just to open at the moment i have AA i need to kill. But the thing about that is that if i open, im good i can talk to people easily but when im not out for a few days or just don't get the opportunity to open then im back to quare one again.
So for this comming week i shall try 3 sets a day till the weekend. Then im out on Staturday night so hoppfully i can get to the next levels (DHVs and maybe building rapport). But for now im stuck on level one.

hey bro im in a similar position to you, although not new to game just starting out taking it seriously

have you checked out stylelife's 30 day challenge? it will give you a good learning structure

also remember with your 3 sets during the week, daygame is much different to night game, with nightgame being much easier in my opinion. but hey thats just me

good luck man hope goes well post your progress

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Thanks for your message friend now that i know someone actually wants to read my progress is even more of a motivation
I think I have the book you are refering to I havnt had the chance to read it yet though.
Night game is easier. But im out and about more in the day so makes sence to get rid of the fear of approach in the day right. Thing is will once I open i don't find it hard to get a convosation going so its just that part I need to sort out.
btw i like your signature i may have to steal you idea lol.
Are you writing reports too? would be good to see how your getting on.

Ocean

Good luck ocean! Look forward to your Field Report

Today was not much in terms of approach so i guess i still have AA. but hey i still have the rest of the week! However there has been some interactions wasn't much though but made me feel better about my self.
Whist at work today i was working with a 60 year old guy assembling furniture. He likes to sing loud! i mean loud! you can hear him at the other end of the warehouse loud and clear. Anyways he had his ipod in and was singing. This lady comes in looking for a particular product. she tried to shout him for help to no avail then looked at me, an i said "I have to put up with this all day" rolled my eyes. She laughed then managed to get his attention. Normally I would have just been my quiet self. So i know this is nothing but its something for me.
Another interaction was when i went to fill up petrol. i spent £30 at pump number 30. I i told the chashier "30 please" and he said "13?", "30", "3-0", "yeh!" Then he was like "thats £30 please" i said "13?" lol his work colleauge must have over heard and gave a lil laugh. just a stupid joke i know, but its something i would have never have done.
All in all an ok day no actuall approaches but interactions none the less. Im not working for rest of the week. So i need to make myself actually get out the house solely for the purpose of killing AA. We'll see what tomorrow brings. Any tips anything i can do is greatly appreciated!

Ocean

Nice man

I know exactly how you feel. I am on the same road. It takes a long time but as long as you feel like you are making progress you are. Just take one step at a time. With a few months you´ll certainly be changing! Keep up the good work.

I was in the city for most of today, well as soon as i got in i started of asking random people for the time. My physical location is a factor in that question because theres a tower with time on it right in the centre. So this was when i was walking in. There was a 8 just sitting on the wall i guess she was waiting for a lift. I saw her, she seemed to have her head in her phone. I thought to myself she must be too busy so i won't say anything. Then i saw her look up a few times as i got nearer (my path was right past her) so i walked up her thinking i wasnt going to say anything and with out thinking the Q came out. That was the first of many people! Im thinking its better to ask 8s and above for the time.
Im thinking actually using openers for the next few days. I really think im making progress posting things here is helping.
Feels like AA is slowly dieing..

Goal until the weekend:
Use actual openers

Nice work

I like your approach. You are taking baby steps each time Well done man!

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