So i met this HB last week at a club. We danced for about 2 hours and kissed but I had to leave so i got her number and she told me to text her so she could have mine. I texted her however didnt get reply. Then next day i texted her again and she replied asking what my name and all but I could feel she didnt want to talk. I asked her if she was on fb and i told her I would add her but coulnt find her so I told her i couldnt find her and she never replied. Yesterday I got friend request from her however I dont know how to start things again! Any help would be appreciated! Thanks in advance

How bout a normal "What are you doing, cutie? " ?

should i do it on fb or text?

text her, and start moving things towards meeting dont let this get stale mate

"how are you doing > insert sexual adjective here < you still owe me that night out like you promised, where you taking me "

obviously that depends on what you guys talked about on you're night out but you get the idea.

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I texted her however no reply. Its just very confusing. We hooked up and everything seemed pretty good that night. Then when i texted her, she didnt seem interested so i let it go. Then she adds me on fb? I guess i should take that she is not interested?

Were you both drinking? She may be feeling abit of buyers remorse if you guys pushed it a bit far or simply woke up the next day and couldnt remember anything about you from that night?

She was but i wasnt...We made out and that was it...I had to leave so nothing more...maybe thats the case but she seemed interested but suddenly dies down

I'm actually an experienced "pua" even though I am new here. You guys are over thinking things. The girl has a life, she has her things she does consciously yet subconcsiously she has fantasies that she may/may not explore given the males she meets. It's catch 22, if you message her you may push her away/seem needy.

You should be glad she accepted your request, now you have that much more social proof, I say you go out, meet another girl and do it all over again. The next girl will probably flake on you too, and so will the next and the next. lol, but if your lucky the first girl might notice that you are adding girls up left and right. Once she gets the idea that she in fact needs to fight for you, she might write something on your wall, making all the other girls notice.

I say may because you can't predict what will happen with any certainty. However the more girls you throw into the equation the more likely one of them will do something useful. I hope that makes sense. Sometimes it's hard to get the ball rolling but when you have multiple women eating out your hand they just keep coming and coming.

Thanks but the thing is that SHE added me on fb. I mean I had actually forgotten about her because i thought it was a closed case..maybe she was drunk that night and didnt actually want to do anything but when a week later i get a friend request it made me think i had a second chance...but i know that its not that big of a deal

The fact that you kissed her shows that you took her through the stages of meet, attract, build comfort. If it were me, I would use Mysteries technique of making up an arbitrary excuse to meet her. DON'T ask her on a date, she has shown you resistance. It would be hard to plow through it on fb. Better to bait her into real life, qualify/build comfort, then you take it where you want from there once you have established the leadership position. Kiss her again ect.

Everyone has their own style, I personally find I am more effective in real life. Most of what I use to communicate higher value is body language. Facebook causes me to lose girls if anything. I'm considering ditching all together or locking myself our for days at a time.

Good advice...i know where she works through fb (haha fb as alot of advantages) so i can prob go there to eat some time haha

When she was dancing with me...she had given me some kinda ID( passport) or somehting to hold on...and after that she had forgotten to take it back but i chased after her to give it back( now i think of it..I am a dumbass for doing it) haha gotta learn from it