This is whats happened.
I was in comfort zone with her at my house, already establish rapport and kino a lot ("accident" ones ).I have seen lot of IOIs and then i have decided its a moment for K-close so I give her triangle look but in a moment she understand that, she turn her head , masking that with cigaret in ashtray move.I pull myself a little back, but attack with kino again.Then she push my hand off, not smiling at moment "your hands are too hot"(In my language hot dont have such strong sexual meaning like in english ) .
I bullshit something about bio-energy and massage im into (totaly bs) but she played like uninterested party.So when she was going home i try it again, I kiss her at cheek then lover my head at her neck , sniff her and kiss her there "you smell so good" but i chicken out and not close.She was gigoling but not turning her head or body to me and gone .I am aware of my mistake, but now I m counting on fact that now when she has seen my intentions if she come shell know why is she coming.Or not?

So after 2 days i txt her playfully with no answer.Then 3 days after that I called her.
She said "sorry, I have to study but we can see each other on Thursday( WTF in 7 days ?) so i said "sorry a lot can happen in that time lets keep it open".Then after few hours i txt her hinting im having a great time.She called me with no concept of her own( if you know what i mean ) and i played like Im having company playing on jealousy and said "its soo great that you called, bla bla bla we can talk next time".She "yeah we can, we can" - with clear grudge.

I txt her in few days and again with no answer( not calling her out just funny staff like everything is ok.On Thursday i txt her calling her to come to my place .No answer.
Day after she txt me "sorry i had no phone credit yesterday.Count on hanging out next week".

So is she playing me, how can i turn this around?Where were my crucial mistakes?

i think u just have to go for it men

u had ur chance to kiss close but mess up, dont worry it happens to all of us, but make sure that mistake count and dont make it again, that is called progress

u gotta be real to urself bro, do u really want this girl, then u gotta be willing to risk losing her

so just act cool, act like nothing happened (cuz seriously nothing happened yo) and take her out again, make kino look for her ioi and when u see or make the oportunity take it without hesitation

u'll regret if u dont

good luck

Tnanks bro, that help me with my attitude.
But there is that thing...i was working real hard to get there and have her relaxed, for a month i progressed with txt and calls so when i text her shes been often call me afterwards and it was like that 3 or 4 time a week.Sometime she has been initiating contact and we have seen each other once or 2 time a week.
But after last time, she is changed as I stated in first post.
So im not sure she really want a date i think she is playing a game and will flake.
Thats my problem , if she wanted to see me, there was plenty of time , now i feel all tension is cooling down and just feel in my gut im further from my goal.
I know i should worm her during a week , poke her from time to time , but now she just react too cold or not at all.
How should i proceed?

yeah dude
i feel u
i know what ur talking about and it sucks
i think ur only real option is to go all in
but dont get me worng dont tell her that u like her, never do that
just invite her out
but do it IN PERSON
otherwise ur chances of flaking grow
and u get to see her real reaction
take her to do something really interestig for the both of u
something different not the typical movie and dinner
if she flakes just forget about her for a couple of months and try with other women

Tell her this:

"Hey, I'm sorry if I did anything to make you uncomfortable. You're a really good friend, and I wouldn't want to lose that."

In this way atleast she knowz your aware of what happened, and taking her feelings into consideration.

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Smart that also puts u back into control of the situation since she'll think your putting her into the friends zone which will make her want to justify herself