hey pua's sort of a long read but here it goes

2 days ago i took out a girl ive been texting for a week now, shes 16 im 17 we were supposed to go out to the movies but she said she couldnt get out of the house after 10 cause her mom says its too late

so i make other plans and go out

she texts me after saying "hey my mom syas i can go:)!" so i say ok ill be over there when i leave... eventually i get to her house around 11 40 and she gets in the car and we immediately start talking and i felt like it was going good

i was bringing up old memories we had by talking about the concert(where i met her and got her #) and i was asking her about things she likes and telling her we should do those things together, attempting to make her think of future dates with me (something i picked up around the forums) and i was kino escalating a little, basically i felt like i was gaming pretty good

after lots of laughs in the car we got to the theatre and i asked her if she wanted my jacket in the parking lot, she said yes and i helped her put it on... then we get to the ticket booth but we cant get in cause you have to be 18 to watch the movie so she said she was hungry, so i tried to take control and be an alpha male(something else i read anround the forums) and asked around random people and a taxi cab driver where i could find a open restaurant(its like 12 30 am) and i find one and we go there

when we got there we talked about playing pool when we finished eating then i ordered for both of us
she got a meal and i got a kids meal (cause i ate when i thought she cancelled on me) then shes like "why did you get a meal, im gonna have a big meal and youre eating a kiddie meal" i tell her i already ate out with friends

so when the food comes she has a big plate and mines is small she laughs and says you she needs help with her food so i say ok ill eat some of your fries so were eating and talking then out of nowhere she starts throwing fries on my plate then i tell her "wat do i look like rex?" she was like whos rex then i say"im not your family dog stop throwing food on my plate" she laughs then a little later she throws another fry then i throw it back on her plate then she picks it up and htrows it at my shirt so i get it and throw it bak then ishe threw it at my face

at this point i wanted to cuss her the fuck out and leave her sitting in the restaurant with no ride btu instead i say "ok thts enough i call a truce on the fry war" she syas ok tehn i get the check and i pay

i go back to the car and i dont open her door (wich ive been doing all night) cause i was pissed at her for throwing fries like a 3 year old, then i drive her home

we pull up and she gives me a hug in the car and says she had a great time out with me i said ok thts good and drive off

basically i wanna know why the fuck was she throwing fries at me like a baby

and did this ruin my chances with her?, as of rite now i dont want to date her anymore just f close cause i payed for her meal and put up with her childish behavior

But i havent talked to her since saturday night, so shuld i wait for her to text/call me or shuld i text/call her?

and if everything goes good where do i go from there

thanks for reading

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3f's... Find 'em Fuck 'em Forget 'em, welcome to the lions den.

She just seems like a fun girl who likes such childish joking around.
You lost some brownie points for not playing along.

If that's not your cup of tea, move along, similar acts of silliness are to be expected.

when i tried to play back she got pissed and threw a fry at my face

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3f's... Find 'em Fuck 'em Forget 'em, welcome to the lions den.

REALLY pissed, or just playfully? If she said she had a great time, she was probably just kidding. Find out what she is about

how shuld i do that? shuld i text her "hey wats up miss me" or something

she wasnt pissed but she didnt want other people to see her get slapped with a fry so she seemed irritated... i think

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3f's... Find 'em Fuck 'em Forget 'em, welcome to the lions den.

Then act naturally and forget about it.

You didnt get into the movies because you had to be over 18 to get in, and you ask why your girl is being immature at a restaurant at 12:30am? Seriously, live a little. You could have even made a game out of it, if she landed a fry in your mouth or on a spot on the plate she'd get a reward.

Your right I wish I wouldve thought of that but I was surprised and didn't know how to react

I text her my usual opener but shedidnt reply, shuld I call her or just forget about her?

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3f's... Find 'em Fuck 'em Forget 'em, welcome to the lions den.

Forget! if she tries to initiate contact u can think about it. but dont wait for her to text or call u.. just move on..

Mufasa, yeah man, she was definitely playing around. What I find is that even quite "sophisticated" girls enjoy that sort of "silly" playing around.

It wasn't natural for me - I was never really a "playful" type, but it's something I worked on (and am still working on), because it's good stuff. The girls love someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously. Yeah at times, you need to be more serious, but when it's just the two of you, they USUALLY much prefer someone who can be playful, maybe make themselves look a bit childish and silly, but is having a good laugh with them!

don't fret it, and next time you're out with her, play along with her games!