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Yes, I'll agree duality is everything- same time its nothing too.
Duality exists IN everything. However, it is not everything nor is it nothing. You are throwing ambiguous definitions at all hoping something might fit; this is open mindedness but it is not here and now. Here and now, there exists a few clearly defined parameters of desirable outcomes. Do you want your mother to die? Will you say "Yes and No"? Do you want your father to die? Yes and no? Twack to your head with a stick.
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I'd agree and disagree on knowing, ultimately I know nothing sametime I know something enough that I posted the thread for a specific reason. As to learning, well you need to learn then forget then relearn, and the cycle continues. We're not in a position to say we don't learn..or why even be here talking? You had to learn to communicate didn't you?
Stick to the topic of your thread. Forget the learning and forget the unlearning and forget the relearning. A 5 year old who loves his parents will arrive at awareness without learning or unlearning or relearning. You have no leisure time to ponder the existence of your past and your life cycles. Act now.
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As to the let go part, sure let go of everything. Yet unless you know how to or what to let go, your stumped.
You're only stumped because you're trying to figure out "how to or what to". . . just let go. . . LITERALLY. There is nothing to figure out.
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The past is the past, it should be left there however there are many things from the past which still influence you RIGHT now, from your upbringing, cultural background etc.- if you don't understand that how can you ever understand yourself? In learning that you learn about yourself, in which then you can let go. By no means is this the only way to do things, however..its one route.
Again, go and understand yourself all you'd like. The monkey isn't a psychoanalyst nor is he a family historian. He posed a question. Answer it.
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Mmm I wouldn't say its sitting on the fence (my view is one needs to address both sides constantly to understand the full picture), yes your correct everything is applied to life- thats the reason the thread put up, however there are certain lessons I'm aiming at with this, which haven't been addressed. Yes, it is up to the person how they apply it given what their background is, that said they'll apply whatever they know to said original thread. But then its like the blind leading the blind. From my perspective because of my experiences- theres at least 5-10 lessons in those 2 sentences on a basic level, then can be expanded much more. My perspective isn't the "right" one, yet from what I've seen everyone (including yourself kasabi) has applied a certain filter to it, which still hasn't got to the things I was aiming at. Your perspective is perfectly fine, yet for what the post was intended for- (which was my view initially), your in the area (given your background) however missing the targets.
NO! There is no prospective. There are answers that will lead to the death of your parent(s) and there are answers that will not. Sure, there will be cultural and linguistic differences. However, spiritually and morally, there is one answer. In terms of how individuals apply this lesson to life, it's infinite.
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I'll further state; someone is probably going say why don't you just GIVE us the answers , in which I'll state- giving them won't help you, there is a certain process that needs to happen. (Now..then someone is going say thats really arrogant in which I'll say- give a man a fish or teach a man to fish, reading a book how to fish isn't the same as going through it).
I understand your point but your analogy doesn't quite work the way you intended. One can in fact read about fishing and become a better fisherman. One can in fact read about Zen to better understand nothing.