| This is a tricky one. I'll try to be brief at each paragraph. I'll try using PUA jargon just for practice, I don't like to over use it either.
The main actors are: modeleater, 'natural' friend, HB7.5
Time window: We study in nearby schools and we have only 1 month left before everyone returns home, so no more direct contact in many years. Simply put, it is now-or-never.
* Day 1
Location: Barbecue party
We all met this day, and I befriended this guy -who is like 6 years older-, he is cool. I greeted my other friends and continuously open new sets, just to say hi and meet new people. At the time I didn't think of this as a warmup but it is useful.
Some time later I go and approach HB7.5 (a friend of the party organizer) who is with a HB8.5 that in conversation I learn is staying for just 2 days, so I focus on just having fun with these two girls. As I do in parties, I stay within the set for some time and later leave on a high note to do something and come back to answer new questions. HB7.5 knows my 'natural' friend beforehand.
A HB8.5 arrived and I approached within the 3-second rule, this pick-up goes fairly well but is not relevant to this situation. Just to note, discovered that this HB8.5 is an AFOG party girl, so I momentarily decide being good friends with her, to reach targets near her.
We all got ourselves added in Facebook and shared some likes and photos.
A week later I invite all of them ('natural' guy, HB7.5, AFOG HB8.5,...) to a party a friend organized. For the sake of space, let's say we had fun. AFOG HB8.5 introduced me to a friend (HB7) who I had a good conversation with and received some IOI's, she was my target for the night but I was kind of tired. Short as I can put it: We all went to the club, where my 'natural' friend isolated HB7.5 and went on kissing. Kudos for him. The HB7 looked tired and the group was disperse (greeting friends in the club, buying drinks...). 2 hours later we left the club, and I #closed HB7 before she got on a taxi. Told her to sms me when she arrived, she did and I replied later.
The next day afternoon I call HB7 but surprisingly she was crying because of a guy ... so I told her I'd call her the other day. During the week I try to get a day2 with this HB7 but she is genuinely busy, we are in exams, so... I move on.
Now the important day:
Another week later I go out with this people but not the 'natural' friend. The HB7.5, her HB7 friend and her SPAM guy were playing some drinking game and I joined in. Later that night, the AFOG brought like 8 friends (2 guys, 6 timid girls). We chatted for a while and the two guys love me by now. Between the AFOG and me we decide to go by taxi to the club. The frame was mildly more controlled by her because of the group she brought. We entered the club and danced a little bit. We are all tired because of the week, so I propose the group to sit down outside and rest for a while before leaving. I controlled the frame.
We were 5 people: Me, Afog, HB7.5, her friend and the guy. I've never seen the AFOG as tired as that night, it was funny. I was totally controlling the frame. We had good conversations and we began to make plans for the next day, like going for a drink, a movie, whatever. Somehow I began talking about cooking something and HB7.5 asks where to get a special ingredient. I say that we can go to the city market, and she says she never been there before. Now I tell the story of the market, all the things you can find and stuff.
She looked really interested, and #closed me! (she asked for my number). Of course, I handed out my phone, told her to type her number, she did AND called herself to get my number. I didn't look surprised, I can have good control of my frame and stay as a challenge. She subcommunicates that she wants to go to the market with me.
The following day I go with the 'natural' friend and some girls to a city fair to get some drinks, food and look at the stuff they sell. I just told the AFOG we were going so she could bring her friends and have fun. He invited HB7.5 and her SPAM to come over, later they arrived. We all greeted each other. HB7.5 greets my natural friend a bit happier than the others, for obvious reasons. And this is after she #closed herself to me last night.
We spent like another hour in the fair. There is some seriously loud music we enjoy some beers. Later, the natural friend went to grab something, and 5 minutes later the HB7.5 and the AFOG told me like joking that they were going to find "a bathroom" and dissapeared while I was with my other friends.
I quickly realized that maybe the natural and HB7.5 made up this plan to not appear that obvious and maybe he went for the f-close that night. The AFOG was the accomplice. So, in order to not stay there waiting forever, I just send a SMS to the AFOG and HB7.5 telling I was leaving for the night.
So, I have a couple questions:
1) Is there something like long-term buying temperature?, or
2) What do you think about the chances for a f-close 2 days later she has done it this guy?
This is because I have another girl HB7 waiting, she's been SMSing me since a week and just in the city fair I got three messages. I'm 80/20 sure I can f-close her in her flat, I have very good comfort with her since a party. If I game this HB7.5, I won't have so much time to game this HB7.
I really enjoy the time I spend with this guy and the AFOG (she's fun) but... I don't know If we should see each other less often. We're actually spending our last weeks together.
*****
Quick toughts on that HB7 the AFOG introduced to me:
* She looked genuinely interested in me, but I couldn't move from A3 to C1, the mood of the party wouldn't let me because some friends approached me to ask me things or tell me jokes... yes, it was that crappy.
Future solution: Isolate
* I could have been into C1 with no problem and #close when the attraction was high, not when we were leaving the club and she was so tired. Nonetheless... that SMS trick was taught to me by the 'natural' guy, so...
Good thing is that I could keep up the attraction (A2 was easy) and then she started A3 herself.
After all, mistakes are good to learn.
Last edited by modeleater on Sun Jun 12, 2011 10:08 am, edited 5 times in total.
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