So , I don't know exactly how to put this. But I have one major problem that I think is what causes the other sub problems? This main problem is that i fall very hard for girls who i find both pretty and cute (and no there are not many just two which is including the one now). And so with the girl now, she broke up with me because she needed to spend time with a friend that is moving and wouldnt be able to spend time with a friend moving away which was totally chill, yet she still loves me too. But for some reason, I have this paranoia that tomorrow she is going to meet some studly hunk who she falls in love with and then i will be left in the dust, i dont know why this is because not trying to be full of myself im 6'4" and from what ive heard pretty attractive. I dont know if this is because of low self confidence or what? But if it helps I also go in waves of game (as in the pua type of game) because I will one moment feel like i want to just go fuck lots of girls. And then the next moment i really want just a girl who i know cares about me and just someone to love. I know I will always feel that way about love, but is there any way to keep the pua mentality to reallly get a love?

First off bro just do your thing as I learned sitting around thinking about the situation isnt going to help go out, party , have a good time. If you are busy then one you wont have time to worry about her second she will see you can still have fun without her. To addres your second concern I have that smae problem sometimes feeling like I want to go out and fuck as many girls as possible and other times I just want a girl to go out with. If you go out and fuck girls sooner or later you will find a girl you can relate with and get to know better and that will meet your second need of finding a girl you can date.

Hope this helps