| Last night I went to a club with my friend. Over all I'm pretty frustrated with the way everything turned out. On the upside of things, I believe my game is spot on. I keep fucking things up by not closing at the right moment though. Does everyone really have it in their mind that they would rather close over having fun?
Anyway, we got to the club pretty early. My friend there was obviously a regular because the bouncer didn't even bother carding him and immediately a waitress came up and gave him a hug. This was social proof through the roof! (no I'm not a rapper)
There was a live band playing and everyone for the most part was crowded around the bars. We were able to find a hole and grabbed ourselves a drink. We then found a nice couch area to lounge in and take in the scenery. There were beautiful women every where. Any time one would look my way, I would flash my winning smile. Every last one of them smiled back. At one point, the waitress came over and asked if we needed another drink. She sat down with us for a moment and chatted. Again, social proof.
A 2 set came (HB8 and HB9) and sat down next to my friend. Moments later, my friend said he was going to go get us some more drinks. I look over and flash the girl a smile. She smiles back and the game is on.
I run cologne opener and it works beautifully. Positive results from both ends. My target is the girl that is closer to me (HB9) so I focus my attention on the other who is farther away from me. All the same, my posture is laid back which causes them to come towards me if they want to hear or say anything to me. This works for me over and over again as we chat.
I find out they are from Boston. One of them is here for business and the other is tagging alone. They are city hopping. I ask them to say things like "Park the car in the garage". Then told them the story of how I worked with a guy who was puerto rican and from Boston and I could never understand a damn thing he said.
When I finally turned my full attention to my target, she was excited as hell. She had this beautiful curly hair and I commented on it while giving her a takeaway. LMAO! Unfortunately, it didn't work for me the way I thought it would.
Now, I'm not sure if I'm using the phrasing right, but for me takeaways are something that you know to be false but compliment them on it. For instance, "Your nails look nice... Are they real?" 9 times out of 10 they aren't. In my case, I complimented her on her hair. "I love curly hair... Is it natural?" She said it was, which wasn't the answer I was looking for but went along with it anyway. She said it in a way that made me think she wasn't happy about it or something.
Me: What was that all about
Her: What do you mean?
Me: Well you said it like you really don't like your hair or something
Her: Well, I usually wear it straight because my boyfriend doesn't like it curly
Me: But you do
Her: Yeah.. I love my hair!
Me: Hmmm... something to think about
Her: Huh?
Me: I don't know you or your boyfriend, and he could be the greatest guy in the world, but if he's asking you to change this one thing about you now, what will he ask you to change later. Or even worse, what if he's asked you to change other things about yourself and you feel that you need to comply every single time? Either way, this is not have fun conversation so just forget about it. Hey... I'm gonna catch up with my friends, but we'll get together later ok?
Her: Yeah... ok...
So I eject and do a tour of the place. Now my friend is always on his on game plan. He's good at picking up women. I'm not sure exactly what he says or does, but for some reason he always has a new girl on his arm. Either way, him being interactive with the women in the club is again social proof and I believe it mentally helps me. Unfortunately because of this, I always have to run game on sets alone and it would be great if I had someone to jump in a the right moment to wing it up.
Moving right alone, I make a tour, open a few more sets, then end back up at my original location. I see the 2 set that I opened earlier on the dance floor with 2 Marines. Now, I have nothing against them being a former Marine myself, but you could clearly see that my target was trying to get away from one of them. Initially they were dancing in the separate sets. Then you could see my target annoyed with the way the guy was dancing and pulled away from him to get closer to her girlfriend. Words were then exchanged between them and they both pulled away from both guys leaving the two guys dancing alone. Classic close out! When one girl isn't happy, the group isn't happy.
I enter the set again.
Me: You guys picking up Marines tonight?
Target: She is
Me: And you aren't?
Target: Nope
Me: Yea you are.. You realize I'm a prior service Marine right?
Target: You are!?
Me: LOL! Does that even matter?
Target: Umm.. no.. it doesn't..
Me: Good... Let's do this
I take her hand and lead her to an empty space on the dance floor and we dance the night away. The entire time, she kept complimenting me on how well I danced. Then she hit me with the boyfriend thing again. Said something about how she wished he danced the way I did. Now, in my mind, I keep hearing nothing but bad things about this guy, so I take that as her trying to reason with herself on why she's doing what she's doing. Which at the moment was simply dancing. Not grinding, but dancing. There is a difference.
Anyway, during this time, her friend got back with the Marine she was dancing with initially. They seemed to be having fun. So I isolated at this moment. Pulled her to an area where it was just us two and talked it out. We were very close and intimate, but the conversation never seemed to turn sexual. I just didn't get that vibe. We took a picture together and I told her to email it to me. So got her email address. I ejected once again and when I came back, they were no where to be found.
Sucky situation. Overall, the night was fun. Ran a lot of routines. Didn't get one number or kiss close though and that was disappointing.
Routines: Cologne opener, Drug dealer routine, created new routine for girls with a pinup look, text message breakup routine,
Closes: ABSOLUTELY NONE! I don't consider an email a close. May as well ask for a home address.. Was able to find her on FB with that though. Not likely I'll friend her...
Sticking Point: Having fun over closing. I really need to cut this crap out. I get to the point where I'm having fun that I don't focus on the mission at hand.
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