Met a girl this weekend.. Kissed and number closed.. I ended up calling the number while she was there because she said she gave me the wrong one, so she got my number in the process.

I just texted her now with "Drinks on me for the entire night if you remember my name"

I'll let you know how she replies and respond back. Honestly don't like the line too much but we'll see how it goes. I was initially thinking "dinner is on me" but didn't like that any better.

Anyone got an idea of how else you can word something where you're sure a girl won't remember your name? I really feel that this text is something different, and want to make a game out of it without offering something that involves money.

"Kiss on the cheek"?
"Back rub"? (creepy and AFCish)
"Movie night at my place"? (still creepy and ACFish)
"Dinner at my place"? (less creepy and AFCish)

Any ideas?

i think your on the right path with the msg, i wouldn't have said drinks tho, instead of, you paying for drinks if she can't remember, it should have been if she can't remember, she buys YOU a drink(or anything else for that matter!

also, as far the next step in the courting process, i go for low temp dates

-invite her and her friends to movies with ur friends (she pays for your ticket)

-say that ur going shopping for shoes and her+ friends can "tag along" if they like (buys you new lknew laces for shoes)

-are you going to see this artist? their great!etc

if you go to dinner you have to sit across from eachother for 2+ hrs roughly if u wanna do any good, and it can get very awkward if u don't know eachother that well

the movies is good, because you could ask her (for forgetting you name) to win you a stuffed toy in the vending machines. and then you have a cute little toy that u can let her keep (cause ur such a nice guy), and it'll be a nice little reminder of you sitting her bed side table!

let me know what happins bro, yew!

Me: Drinks on me for the entire night if you remember my name
Her: Sorry Thumper just got your text. It was nice meeting you
Me: Damn you're good. Let's do a wine bar on Friday
Her: Sorry going camping maybe we'll run into each other again

(At this point, I took it as a no go and was ready to drop the number)

Me: Temecula is a small town so it's possible. Take care
Her: Oh and thanks for flattering me
Me: Pretty sure lip locking is a lot more than flattery
Her: Too funny. Guess you're right Well thanks
Me: LMAO. Take care
Her: You too

There you have it. Decided to try something new and it didn't work out. The whole flattering thing makes me think she just got out of a relationship where she felt unappreciated or something because she was an easy HB8.

My normal plan for a day 2 is to send an initial message, fluff, then offer a date. If she says no at the offer, I simply say "OK" and leave it at that. If she doesn't offer up another alternative, then I drop it.

I tried to convey the same emotion into this routine, but it just didn't seem to work out the way I thought it would. I still like the concept though, so will play around with the wording until I get something I like.

ps: calling is always a better option, its more confronting, has alot more meaning, and you talk alot more creating better rapport. also, make sure u sounding interesting and funny and have plenty of things to say, and end the call before it draggs out or gets stale