this is a chick i gamed on messenger some years ago. didn't get physical because we live in different cities, but she was totally, i mean TOTALLY into me. today i added her and she left a sweet message on my board, but mr pua here decided that cockyness would be cool and wtf, how dumb i am. she got offended b/c i made fun of a shopped pic of her with a fake long white hair and now my wall is infested by this girl negging me.

i'm not worried about what she thinks, but i'm afraid of this dlv'ing me for my other facebook chicks, since she is negging me a LOT. need directions. what should i do now?



here's the convo. it's in portuguese originally but i'll do my best to translate.

girl: miss you (L)

me: me too!!! wow hb, long time no see! i loved your gandalf haircut, if it wasn't shopped i think i'd fall in love so how are you surviving in these last years without me?

girl: honey, if you paid a little attention, you'd see that gandalf's haircut is nothing but a photoshop trick too. you come with the flour and i'm already with the bread, baby (i don't know if this makes sense, it's a stupid brazilian line, but it's a neg. also, she misinterpreted what i said, what a dumb bitch)

me: actually, i thought only the haircut was shopped. no need to confess about the rest lol. and you're still a cutie when you're mad

girl: angel, i don't need to "confess", because this is no secret for anyone. look: *show me a link with a lot of funny shopped photos of her*. everyone knows i'm a photoshop addict. kisses

me: hahaha, god, how much free time you do have... if i knew you were this good, i wouldn't let you escape from doing my cd cover.

girl: hahaha. if i had this much free time, i'd search for more interesting cd covers to do. but everyone can have a hobby, no? i with my photoshop and you with your little band *"little" is a negging word in this context*

me: haha, your poison enjoys me. is everyone in the big town like this or it was destiny who made me meet with the toughest of all?

girl: who knows? you started...

me: i was just checking if my ability to drive you crazy was still the same

girl: guess if it is. humpft!

me: i knew it was you're lovely. but don't get mad again, it's only funny in the first time.
btw, stop searching for sarcasm in my responses, i sent mine to the shower long time ago. it's a pleasure talking to again, now i'm serious

2 hours, no response


pfff what a bitch.

so, i know i fucked this up in oh so many ways, but i don't know shit so please tell me what i did wrong and what is the best fix right now. thanks

You're the floor...with the bread...and...what?

Anyway, well-played on your part. A lot of guys would have apologized and let her pussy-whip them into submission. I wouldn't read into the lack of response too much yet. For all you know, she had to leave and go out somewhere or go to dinner with the family. There's a million reasons why she hasn't replied yet. Don't start crafting a new plan of attack until you've given her a day or two to reply.

oops, it's "flour", i spelt incorrectly. she meant she's a step ahead of me or something like this.

i deleted the last comment, which started in "stop searching for sarcasm... etc", it can be bad since she must have it on her e-mail and perhaps will see it as regret in being friendly, but i didn't want to sound like supplicating for other people reading, meh.

thanks for the feedback. i'll leave it as it is if she doesn't respond, i just wanted to know if i was being too much of a jerk, hehe.

It's a brazilian term. It makes more sense in portuguese.

"Voce vem com mingar mas eu ja vim com fuba pronto." lol. Good luck gaming the Brasillian girl.

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i thought it looked pretty good till the last line.


if im reading correctly it sounded like she was play fighting with you most of the time, and your last line kind of threw me off.

i kind of agree with you, blacklabel. this is why i deleted exactly this line (see my last post).

now she gave a "like" to the last undeleted message ("i knew it was, you're lovely blabla"). sounds like the chick was really having fun, haha. sick game.