Ok guys so here what happened friday night.

So im in santa barbara and its probably the greatest place in the world for halloween because about 10 thousand students/people show up from anywhere and everywhere to party. So i went out with a few friends and made the round(walking around in the main party areas) and was just having a good time and not really trying to pick anyone up. So we get back to my place around 3 am and everyone goes to bed. So around 4 am some of my other buddies show up from partying and wake me up by jumpig on my bed like jackasses but i really didnt care.

Anyways they showed up with these 2 girls which one of them had a boyfriend and the other was that girls cousin. Anyways apparntly there was no where else to sleep in the house becuase we had about 10 friends over for halloween and they were all aover the house, so one of the girls is like can she sleep in your bed with you. Of course i said yes like any straight guy would have, i decided that i would just try some late night game and just do some light talking trying and working some kino ( some handtouches/ some foot play) i was just testing the water becusae i didnt know her at all and didnt want to come on too strong. Well she responded back with the same stuff, so i firgured i might as well go for it. There were about 4 people in the room who had just fallen asleep and i figured no was the time, i said stuff like wow i cant believe you woke me up at 4 in the morning, well now that im up im not even tired and stuff like that. She was just blah blah blah, well im not even tired either. This is where i have a question where i will list after (1). So i literally said to her, well lets get after it then and went for the kiss, she did the same and we proceeded to make out for the next 20 mins, i didnt know where i wanted to take this so i threw out the idea that i was interested by grabbing her ass and sliding my hands up and down her body. (2) This is where my second question comes in. Anyways since i didnt know how to transition to something further so i basically was just like how far do you want to take this, she said like i dont know i like you a lot and your a really cute guy but i just feeling a little awkward because i just met you. At this point i just threw out the yeah i know it wired but im just going with it, just to see how she would respond. Anyways we just ended up making out more and then pretty much fell asleep with her in my arms. She left the next day with her friends and later on i get a facebook invite from her, but i dont know if that mean anything besides that she had a good time. I will also she her again becuase she goes to the same school as him so when i vist him i will probably look her up.

Sorry that was so long but this is where my question come in.
1. When i had her right before i went in for the kiss close i knew that she was interested but i didnt know what to say so i just went with what ever came to mind, so im asking would it have been a good idea to run the do you want to kiss me right now routine?

2. What do i do to make the trasition from making out to something more sexual like a hj/bj/sex? I feel like i just want to say..you should suck my ___ becuase its driving me crazy that i dont have anyway of leading her to this.

3. when i do go to visit my brother should i just pull a casual, hey we should definatly party together this weekend. And then i can take it from there if i do party with her.

Thanks for the advice guys

to answer your first question, you calibrated correctly, and the make out was money. the key was that you didn't ask.

for the second question, you asked. you went from pua to afc in one question. sometimes talking can be the biggest cock block. when you're in a situation when things are getting hot and heavy, test the waters, see how she reacts to one thing, and then move to another. basically use kino. as far as the bj, hj, etc goes, its all calibration. you have to test to see how she responds. you should really never ask for one. sometimes you can get lucky and they'll just do it on their own.

as far as the third question is concerned, you have to explain to me what you meant by light conversation.

the point of the k-close routine is to GET A KISS CLOSE
u accomplished that- so i dont see what the problem is
personally from what i read - sounded like fool's game to me
she was down to hook-up from the start
i woulda just mand-up and went for the kiss without saying anything
like rgreco said - sometimes talking can f u up
dude - u made out with her for 20 min.!
she BETTER be turned on at this point - DONT TALK
just put ur hand between her legs - rub the vag over whatev shes wearing
if she enjoys it - after a lil bit - start taking her pants/shorts off
repeat with panties - if enjoys it - take panties off - finger her

u def could have done this - and if accomplish all that - she will grab the cock - if she doesnt - friggen put her hand on it - she'll get the idea
if at netime she denies u - just freeze her out for a bit!
Exactly - no convo b4hand - just say ull be there and she'll be there
let us know how it goes

cheers

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thanks for the replys guys, as far as clearing up my first question.. i was asking for future refrence if it would be a better idea to run a routine or just do what i did and say lets get after it. Great posts by you guys thanks for the advice.

yeah no prob man

as for the k-close

sucks to say but for me it depends
but if u want a rule -when in doubt - use the k-close routine

but like i said
in that scenario (as you described it) the girl gets in ur bed and u dont know her, it's 4 am after a night of drinking...
sounds like fool's game to me. You got the green-light when she got in bed with u. the next step would be a written invitation haha

i woulda just gone for it man!
same thing with escalating to hj, bj, sex. JUST DO IT - dont talk until either she denies u or she starts talking about it first

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Before I post this, I have to say: Getting a girl in the bed without any work involved, BRAVO!

Anyways, I noticed a few probems. 1) Trying to get your freak on in a room full of sleeping, drunk, college students would have been a little weird. I would find another area where you two were isolated. Hell, a bathroom would have sufficed. 2) Asking her if she was okay to do this and that is a common screw up. You should have [after you started making out] slowly started to undress her. Slowly! You want t be able to back off without it feeling awkward. You can usually sense when a girl wants to take it further by leaning your head back slightly while making out. If she follows like she wants more, BINGO!