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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 7:53 pm 
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Hi. I find being PUA very difficult. I can talk to women, but they don't seem interested or engaged in my questions or conversation. I've tried the 4 question personality quiz etc but their replies are minimal, I feel they want me to go. I find it hard for women to put the attention on me whilst I struggle for things to say

At the back of my head I think everyone is more social savvy than me...they probably aren't, but I've been ignored, interrupted and run out of things so many times that I have begun to believe it is true.

Where would be a good place to begin?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 9:08 pm 
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Hey man, try some David D cocky comedy stuff. have fun and dont over think things

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 10:32 pm 
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Well ill tell u a couple different things. Two that I thought of off the bat without knowing u, is u probably have bad body language n ur not being congruent in your speech. Next, sometimes u get dead sets. With body language n voice tonality, you have to be congruent n act like your supposed to be there. If you approach timidly with no confidence n playfulness, they will in no way respond positively. Also, when are you asking to run tests. If you do it pretty immediately it can come off as weird n she wont be into it.

Finally, you gotta work on your inner game alot. Don't for a second believe you can't get girls or that everyone is better than you. You will project that, n its all downhill from there. Work on getting confidence n a sexy playful attitude. What you believe will manifest, so formulate the best beliefs in yourself, not subpar ones.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 07, 2011 2:12 pm 
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I agree 100% with kinorc, your out world is a reflection of your inner world.

To find confidence isn't as hard as people think. While it does require work, it is not a mystical thing. It comes from having a goal and not giving up no matter what. Give your self some goals such as number close, kiss close, bring a girl back to her/ your place, f-close. Do it in that order, only focusing on one. Take it one step at a time. Have fun and don't take it too serious

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