I'm 29 y/o but have been told as recently as 2 days ago that I look more like I just turned 21.

We've all been there. Trying to talk to a girl and she throws out the "You're too young for me" line. I usually take this as a hoop and change the subject. She's trying to get me to qualify myself to her instead of the other way around.

Either way, 2 days ago, I opened a lot of sets and I got the whole "you're too young line" a few times. I used it. Seriously just went a long with it.

Her: You look very young.. How old are you?
Me: How old do I look?
Her: 21?
Me: Lower
Her: WHAT!?
Me: Lower
Her: 20
Me: Lower
Her: 19? Wait... You have to be at least 21 to get in here.
Me: I know. My fake ID is amazing. I paid that guy good money for some quality work!
Her: You're 19!?
Me: No, but you're gullible!
She playfully slapped my arm at this point. I ended up chatting with her for a while afterwards and we danced to a few songs. The subject of my age never came up again

Another set I opened, I went an entirely different direction and it still worked. I don't like this one as much because it feels to me that I am qualifying myself to her. It worked out for me, but she could have just been really interested in me. By the time I opened her, I had been chatting with a few women in her vicinity and already saw her looking in my direction. We chat for a bit then she throws out

Her: You're too young for me
Me: LMAO! You're afraid your friends are gonna think you're a cougar or something?
Her: Well, YEAH!
Me: I try not to think of it that way. I hate the whole cougar thing. To me, you aren't a cougar... You're a MILF!!
Her: *smiles*

We continued to chat it up after this. Lots of IOI's. Conversation turned sexual, and I'm pretty sure I could have taken this one home with me that night. Turned out that she was only 4 years older than me.

Anyway, not too sure how I feel about the second routine. I'll try it again and see what happens, but I still feel like I am qualifying myself to her which is a no no.

Girls that tell you that you're too young are using it as a hoop. Don't jump through the hoop and start qualifying yourself to her. "Age is just a number" "I'm mature for my age" crap that basically puts the power back in her hands. It makes you seem that you're chasing and trying to get her to buy what you're selling. (Does that even makes sense cause I feel like I'm having a hard time explaining this)

I've actually found that I get great results out of women who tell me this. It's like they already know they want to get with me but need to get the thought out of their mind that sleeping with a younger man is bad and need you to convince them of this. Don't try to convince them. They will convince themselves.

Can't wait for the next weekend.. Wish there were more places in my area where I could go out during the week.

GAME ON!!

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Like the ur not a cougar, your a milf line...that will get field tested this week

Brilliant thread: I get that a lot being 18 and such....


Say 'yeah you're right' and false takeaway... talk to other people. Reopen a bit later with 'hey, you got over the age difference yet?'

Works for me anyhoo.

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Glad you guys like it... Please reply back to this forum if you run across this situation and use any of it or any variation of it. I'd like to know how it goes and possibly get some other ideas if you decide to make it your own. I run across this a lot and usually change the subject, but this stuff just came to my mind for whatever reason. I've become really good with thinking on my toes. Shit just flows from me now and it's AMAZING!

Rocknroll.... What false takeaway do you use? "Yeah you're right" seems like it may work since you're owning the fact that you may be younger. Unless I know the takeaway I would probably just change the subject. Not sure if I'd use "hey you got over that age difference yet" though. Seems like it would just bring the age thing back into her head and make her think twice about getting with me.

If anyone has any ideas on what else can be done, be sure to share. Maybe some follow up that doesn't concentrate so much on the age thing.

As I said, I don't like the whole MILF line so much. Maybe I could change it up with something like "I don't like the whole cougar thing.. I like MILFs a lot better"??? That way I'm not telling her she's a MILF or telling her directly that I wanna fuck her.. It worked before, so maybe I don't need to change anything, but like I said, she seemed interested as soon as I opened her. I probably could have said "I like fried bologna" and she would have been cool. I've actually said this to a girl once and got a weird look. Don't recommend it unless you're just trying to get over approach anxiety.

No you actually say 'yeah your right' then you physically end the convo- go build some social proof etc.

Reopen her later on with the line 'so you gotten over the difference yet?' with a cheeky smile and when she giggles k-close.

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