This is a for a hot and cold girl who I have been in contact with for 3 months. She used to call me everyday for 2 months but then stopped. She lost interest it seems and told me she just came out of a long relationship and wants to be single.

Her eyes and body language while we are at work shows me she likes me alot(squinting eyes, smiling, watching me, acting like a ***** to break my confidence) as much as she fights our chemistry, she still shows signs that she enjoys being around me. Then she also talks about other guys, how she gets numbers all the time but it seems all a test to me. I told her on the train, while I had my arms around her and as I noticed her talking a little soft to me.

I said..."You know....nah nothing...actually, I was thinking, we are tired now, but when we are both 100% we can take on the world...................together"

She said "um um what thats mean ya um"

then I said "Just me and you, ourselves, no other souls around us we would enjoy things"

She was like "umm ye"

I tried to go in slowly for a kiss but backed off when she slightly put her chin down. She let me kiss her twice on her cheek but once she put her chin down I thought "if you wanted she would atleast look up at me"

How was the comment(s) and do you think it was good I never forced my lips onto hers? Last time we kissed was nearly 3 months ago. I love her but it's too soon for her because she was in a long relationship, I'm just giving it a go just so I can say I tried. We were on the train and had a few women sitting in front of us, and she was also using a MASSIVE bitch sheild for the last 2 weeks.

What made you say this?
Huh? Sounds like you need her to enjoy things. Sorry for being harsh, but this is how I am seeing it from the outside.
How long have you been going out with her? What's special about her in regards to her personality?

She knows you're into her. She knows she can have you any time. You need to walk away and find other girls. Bitch shield, who cares? When you're having fun, the girl is having fun, there is no bitch shield. You just go with the flow and she follows your lead.

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Well when she is 100% herself she is really funny and a sweet girl. She can talk to anyone and doesn't look down on people. I've known her for about 4 months.

She just plays game while she is at work with me and it's obvious she doesn't want people to think anything is going on between us but it's pissing me off.

She started acting all interested the other day(kiss attempt spiked attraction?) she was staring at me longingly on the train in front of our work mates(very unusual) and turning her body towards me almost like she was saying she was my girlfriend through her gestures. It was weird she swas so all over me I didn't really know what to do. Yesterday she was at work with this ugly geek guy who apparently has a girlfriend. She walks around with him and I think they get the train together because he lives near her but it's not confirmed. They made friends on my days off.

This ugly guy is always around her, and he is a bit of a dumbass and she is a really hot girl. When I tried talking to her with them she would kind of blank me(she doesn't want people to know she likes me) but she does this alot at work.

I asked her to wait for me yesterday because the other day she waited(without me asking) when work finished she had gone and when I got to the station and ran down she was sitting waiting with this guy. She looked like she could of gone but was waiting a bit but she never waited for me outside of work.

I said "I thought you were going to wait" and she made up something like she thought I was gone. I feel jealous because she is with some weird looking guy and doesn't spend anytime with me but when it is 1 on 1 she is lovely and we get on so well.

Normally I hug her but when I got off she didn't seem to warm and was giving me funny looks and shit so I taped her leg and told her I would see her at work tomorrow and then I got off without saying bye to this guy and some other, I know she will think I'm in a funny mood but I was tired and seems like she only wants me when it's suits her. She was walking around with the guy like she arrived to work WITH him, like she used to do with him.

So then I realised why she never answers her phone to go to work with me these days. She called today like she felt bad but spoke about something completely different but you could tell she was crawling around me. She kept telling me her phone was on so I could txt her but I just got to work and was supposed to see her but she wasn't in and she called me to say she had the day off. She told me to txt her later or something so I did because it was like the second time she asked me. Is she worth it?

Alright, you have oneitis. Here's your mission, if you choose to accept it. Get three other numbers, yes three, preferably random girls, set up dates with them. I want you to focus on these three girls. Then, set up dates with them. If one flakes, you have to get a fourth number to replace the flaked number and set up a date.

Now, you're gonna go out with these girls and you're not gonna talk about your girl you're supposedly in love with. You are gonna show them the time of their life...

Should you not choose this mission, you will fail in acting like a man and not walking away and remain this girl's satellite while she chases other challenges aka ugly guy with gf.

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