No matter how much I pump myself up, I'm petrified about opening sets. My friend is an ugly guy, but he wears a hat (peacocking!?) and is often opened by girls with comments on his hat. I'm good looking so I tend to just wait to be approached and I know that's just being a typical AFC. I notice girls looking at me/trying to dance with me but I'm so scared of being rejected.

Do you guys have any links, videos, advice, knowledge on this issue? I'm seriously getting fed up of just being a pussy. I'm a pretty sensitive person so I know rejection would affect me quite bad, but I think getting used to it would lessen the effects after a while and dealing with rejection would be fine. I know I need to be rejected to deal with this, but I'm so scared.

I've read The Game and it's really inspired me, but I can't seem to act on it. I think it gets to the point where I show too much disinterest to girls when really I'm thinking the opposite but I'm too scared to act on it. I've always cared about what people think of me, and I know I shouldn't.

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In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out.

I know how you feel bro, I've been in the same place and especially in Cardiff, it can be a daunting thing going up to a fine fox trying not to stutter and ask her about the weather!

You just need more self confidence which comes with your natural game. Try opening ANY sets to get you into the swing of things first.

Hope this helps.

Go up to girls and tell them they're cute... You WILL crash and burn, but you won't ever have any crippling anxiety!

Until you actually approach the set and interact with them you have no idea if you are attracted to them are not. True she could be an HB10 and it triggers your hardwired Genetic evaluation assessment but suppose you really hate their personality. You can't be "rejected" until you have stated your interest.


You need to reframe how you look at gaming girls. Your not "Approaching" sets you're screening sets to get the rubbish women out the way as quick as possible so you can concentrate on the quality HB's.