I the situation has unfolded, it's clear that there's not really a moral dilema here. She's made her own decision. She's the one seducing me, not the other way around. She's engaged and not married, and the kids aren't his. I don't see a real moral dilema. Some might. I don't.

Now the she's crazy factor is definitely not worth discounting. That's a decision I have to make on my own. I'm not sure if I've made it yet. I've dealt with her before and it wasn't too life shaking. I'm still going to play it by ear. I have boundries and if she breaks them I have no need for her. I definitely wouldn't care less if nothing happened between us.

Not taking into account the moral aspect of this dilemma:

Has a husband: No problem
but
Has 2 kids... COME ON!!
You really wanna do it with 'loosey' here be my guest but I think you should get out and find better wimmin!

Meh. It wouldn't be the first time I'd slept with a woman who's had kids. It's not really about how loose or tight she is. It's more about what's she's willing to do. I've dated a lot of tight women who really only do missionary, or just aren't that experimental. This girl is a freak. Well, that's what happens. Freaks are loose, prudes are tight... generally. Until I find a tight freak, it's a compromise I guess I'll have to make.