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Hey guys, your pal Jabmaster again, need your opinion with this.
I got a job where I get to travel a lot and I've hooking up with a girl from work in one of the cities I visit every month or so.
So, I have came three or four times and we have dated but I have not gotten very far because normally I come in weekdays and there's no much time to expend together.
She is definitely attarcted but I haven't gotten very far (no kissing so far).
So, this time I decided to come in Friday so we could hang out. That was yesterday, she took me to a party and later to a club with her friends.
Before the party it was cool, she drove me around to the hotel and we went dor snacks. In the party it was cool too, I wasn't the center of atention but still we chatted and flirted, some times using only eye contact (I have to admit that my eye contact game has been lacking lately).
Problem was when we got to the club, she was not very interested in me at that point and she was having a very high energy level. The first 15 or so minutes I was all over her but she started playing hard to get.... since my club game is not really strong I decided to stop pestering her, let her have fun and just keep an eye on what was happening.
I think it was a good idea, after that several of her guy friends tried to dance with her, she did dance but she was keeping all of them away. I'd rather play hard to get too.
There were a couple of times where she came and danced in front of me, I just ignored her (by now) and started talking with her guy and girl friends. It went like that for a couple of hours, some times I would go and talk to her, sometimes good, sometimes not that good but nothing important.
By the end of the night she comes with me and start saying something in the lines of:
-I want to tell you this because I like you, all my friends are saying that "You are very handsome and all... but very touchy" (I am touchy with girls, I mean shoulders and back, I actually thought that was cool, I would not go further with a girl I don't know she is attracted to me)
I pretended not to give that comment much importance.
After that she started criticizing my dancing skills and said something like "Remember your Hitch movie"
At this point I got a little pissed off so I just teased her back ("You're funny", I said)
After that we left, and in the car she told me that she was worried about me because I was teasing one of her friends who happens to be a big asshole who sometimes beats the fuck up of those he does'nt like. At this point I just got serious and told her: "Listen, there´s a thing you don't have to worry about and that is me. I am perfectly able to deal with wathever it crosses my path"
She was stilll worried/serious but she got my point.
By the time we got to the hotel i couldnt go for the kiss, I felt it was still early but I started caressing her shoulders and back, she teased me "look, you're touchy"... I just laughed and pinched her tummy... "maybe", I said.
I don't remember exactly what happened next but she kissed my cheek, I kissed hers, and she kissed my cheek back, gave her a high 5, she did not interlock her fingers with me but we caressed our hands together. I left after that.
Need your opinion guys:
- I am going too slow with her?
- Should I have gone for the kiss?
- Do you also get the "very touchy" complaint? (I think it is not as a bad situation since she remarked that I am very handsome)
Thanks
What a bitch! How old is she? Childish comments
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