Hey everyone.
A couple of days ago I said that I would like to overcome my fear of AA by going to a shopping mall and approach every hot girl I saw by using Systematic Desensitization from an Adam Lyons technique. He said in order to overcome AA you should approach 50 girls by going up to them and asking where something is/telling them something about themselves and then eject after a few seconds after the interaction. I decided to see if I was able to do it, you know, approach 50girls. In short I did actually use the technique was great cause it actually worked the way he said it would
I managed to only 2 girls though which was a bit of a let down because I felt like I was expecting too much of myself after my first try (I want to thank the person who told me about something similar to that from this forum, if I manage to find your name i'll give you credit cause that stuck with me, but for a good reason.
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It wasn't all that bad. The 2 girls I managed to approach were really friendly. The first girl I spoke to, she was an 8 not bad for my first try, she had a european accent so that was kinda sweet ! I asked her where to the nearest coffee shop was, who would have thought!, she kindly pointed me in the direction, I said "Thanks, have a great day!" and left after a few seconds. The next girl I spoke to (using same routine) also happened to be a european/russian/some other, I couldn't really tell she didnt sound local? Anways, she was a bit more attractive than the first girl so I gave her a 9. For me to talk to an 8 or 9 by just using an approach is an accomplishment even for me, I dont often talk/hang around or even have any friends who are 8's or 9's!
The mall itself was BIG, i mean this place must have had like 900 shops or more. I walked around for a couple of hours (I got lost aswell, fail). Speaking of which, I actually arrived at the mall really hungry and I said to myself "I must approach at least one girl before I can eat." I thought I was going to die in there cause I was starving and I knew that if I approached I could eat, so I did and I had a quick snack, I knew if I died of starvation on floor I didnt try and the expedition was for nothing. Thank god for that european girl, I was finally able to eat afterwards!
Anyways guys, I know in my first post I said I wanted to approach 50girls on my first try on my first day, but I realized that even though I am excited about what things lies ahead for me in PU and how it will improve my lifestyle, it is a gradual thing to accomplish and needs to be taken a few steps at a time. Alot of MPUA's in the community say they also took a while to get over their AA so maybe I should also try babysteps first and bring the number down to maybe like 10 in a couple days, another few after that...I dont know, your thoughts on AA and your experiences?
All I know is that is was my own fault for not approaching enough as I wanted, I did at least attempt and I got out there today and got something which was better than nothing.
Thanks guys, I will try again very soon. I will get there!
Keep it real.
O' Ryan
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