There is this girl I met at a club. We kissed and made out there. I asked her lots of questions to qualify her.

The next day we had a movie date and just went window shopping. The whole date was 8 hours long. We held hands and there is a kiss here and there. No long make out session tho.

She is the one who ended the date. I asked her to come check out my cat but she was like next time. Not going to my place since she just met me.

It's been a day since I last saw her. Haven't texted her yet. Should I text her or wait for her to text me?

I want to make her my gf from here or just get a f-close. Advice?

Wait two plus days in order to maintain the mysteriousness and show her that you have a life. That's what I did

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"There’s no such thing as a good girl gone wrong, only a bad girl found out.”

It all depends on the girl. Sometimes I wait a day, sometimes two, sometimes an hour. It depends on the situation. If I'm the obvious alpha then I'll text her whenever I feel like it, because I know I have her. And when you KNOW you're the alpha, you WILL have her. Your mindset effects everything. Just calibrate the girls interest and text accordingly. If you haven't texted her, wait a day and see if she texts you. If she doesn't text you the day after then wait until the afternoon/evening of the 2nd day, and then text her. Let me know how things go.

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Fake it until it becomes reality.

8 HOURS? DAAMN! Spending that much time with somebody you just met can make you seem a bit too available, a bit too eager to spend time with them. Be a little more distant for a few days, and when you see her again pay a bit less attention to her except when you have a chance to escalate, then give her your full attention. This will make emotional suspense as all of a sudden you two are having a "moment", and then proceed to escalate, make out, etc. Best of luck!

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Every girl is different. But not TOO different.

In the end, It's not about girls.