hey yall

This is what i just read, its exactly me

NOTE: If you're buying a woman dinner twice a
week, giving her flowers, calling her every day,
and basically "chasing" her, then you can be about
80% sure that there's another guy in the
picture... but guess what? He's the one who SHE
calls, and he's the one who says "Come over later,
I'm busy now"... no dates required.

the thing is she didnt want me to come over today. I've got a girlfriend and i believe im being an extreme wussy. she expects me to be, but also i cant get out of the pattern of being one.
how to trigger her attraction back on, im overly sweet and nice to her.
she says she loves me and i love her.
but im doing twice as much in the relationship as her. i think there's a 60 % chance of another man in our relationship...
how to pimp em out. i mean i used to be confident and goodlooking, but with her im just a pile of shit.
how to be cool with her i mean. i see her tomorrow. i feel like not saying as much as i used to which makes us think and make the things i say more special. i wanna grab her hand and take her with me to whatever what just to take control.
but when i do that i wont look at her, and kinda pull her with me without destination and she might think im mad at her which is totally not the case :S how can i avoid this and let it be fun, romantic lovely and all the bullshit

help

grtz

stop been so god damn nice! lol. Neg her every now and again, dont constantly big her up. And if u feel like shit, join the gym or somethin. Sort urself out. You'll hear this a thousand times - ur the prize.

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Pete

Dude I had the same problems, and I lost my girlfriend to a much older guy (before I heard about the game) , (im a teenager) soo the thing is don't give her attention. If you think she has another guy then flirt with other girls when you are with her.

Show here that other girls wants you and that you can leave her any moment!

... Well you sound like the reverse of my friend.

He is breaking up with his GF because she is nice but boring and even though he thinks he loves her he still is leaving because hes bored out of his mind around her.

Now you need to do

A. Dump her grow balls go and start fresh
B. If you "Love" her then basically start fresh but with her. Do something really fun and intresting show her your a new guy inside and out.

I also agree with above posts. Hit the Gym i feel AMAZING after working out. And tease her a bit.

If worse comes to worse and youve given it your all and she still is distant. Then thats it she obviously not "the one" for you or close to it.

Best of wishes and Good luck man

First of all, who cares if she thinks you're mad? If she's putting you off like that, don't worry if she thinks you're mad. If you SERIOUSLY think she's fucking another guy, there is ONE AFC thing I would actually suggest that you do. That's go over there when SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU THERE. Then, if there's another guy there, you see it with your own eyes and maybe then you can finally quit throwing away all of your damn hard earned money on this girl and quit pissing your time away on her.

I would quit all that shit anyway, just to see what kind of effect it has on her.