So, keep in mind here that this girl doesn't have my # prior to this first text. For some background on this see my post in the Approaching and Opening section titled "What would you do". I'm just looking for some constructive criticism, opinions, good or bad, did I do ok?
So here is the body of the text,

Me - Hey there Miss Sparkle Face. haha! What sort of mischief are you into today?
HB - Lol... Who is this? Sry....I rebooted my phone... N I rebuilt my whole phone book ^.^ =^.^=
Me - It's Pokee, the handsome guy you see while you are at work
HB - Rly now..
HB - What do u do @ work
Me - Yes rly. I spend my day making a mess and solving problems... without a/c!
HB - What company u work for
Me - I work for XXXXXX. You should google us. We do some really cool stuff. But I'm kinda nerdy that way.
HB - Right on. and... How did you get my number?
edit- I think at this point she has no f**king clue who she's talking to. but i could be wrong.
Me - You gave it to me on monday while telling me about a store I should hit up at the mall. I can see I have really impressed you Sparkle face ;P
HB - Well of course... U r really nice

I ended it there and didn't reply. Fuck! I am a nice guy but wtf that just really bothered me for some reason. I still don't know if she really understands who is sending her these texts. But hey, this was my first sarge since before a LTR (that started in '01.) I feel pretty good about that.
Should I just pick this back up in a couple days and re-open then? Should I try to qualify her now? Neg her over her "interrogation" and not answering my original question? I should have done that sooner now that I look back on it.
I have learned a lot in these forums and I hope to get even better, thanks guys.

wait for her to text you again today and act cocky funny confident like you were you did pretty good if there was a problem is that u waited to long to text or didnt make a good first impressian
if you spend 5 mins talking to a girl at a bar and she going to be drinking and handing her number out all niteu call her sooner then usuall but lets say if you spend all day at the beach with the girl u wait longer and let her be patient
the 3 day rule is old and no longer aplies cause to many people now it

Thanks vibe. This is a girl from the grocery store who i have been working on comfort and rapport at a snails pace of 2 minutes at a time, once a week. So far the only investment i have is the time i spend on these forums and reading pu books.

so how long did you wait to call her i think you should get her to inviest some more over phone start with text then call make sure your game is tight and she wont care where she met you and try giving her yur facebook so she could see how good u look unless u have anything u dont want her to see like 10 other girls postin on your wall unless u see her again soon

I waited 2 days to text.
she tried to give me hers but i'm not on it anymore. i gave up fb with the ltr.

2 days wasnt long maybe atleast a day to much so just get her to invest more and when you think its time ask her out but still she could of bin joking

her last msg was 7 hrs ago and I didn't reply to that one. So she just sent me another text asking how my day has been. Good girl. I didn't think she would.

good going, you got the text back. I wouldn't worry much about her not remembering who you were right away. I probably would of made a game of it to get something playful going.

now that she texted back do what i said before and get her invested and later when shes invested enough say send me a pick fo you for my phone and im going to send you one of me and then ask her out dont wait to long or shell think ur not intristed and mite get friended

I think it was weak, look at the text game sticky points, they have tone of good stuff... I will see if i can text convo i had with a girl

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It's a sin if you dont read B4UTXT Her by race De Preist. Helped me with my text game beyond what I thought I could do.

So we had an hour long chat via txt on wednesday. I started getting tired so i told her i was going to bed.
I didn't contact her until today (saturday) this morning i wrote

me- Hey Sparkle, i'm going shopping today. Wanna meet me at the mall?
hb- Gmorning!... Man i work today... >( blah blah blah
me- blah blah Bummer working on sat. I finally get a real weekend. yay!
hb- Wow nice... wish i could have weekends off... id have to request them off in advance... T.T
me- what is T.T?
hb- a face with tears running down lol... T.T
me- Don't cry Sparkle, we'll hang out sometime

She didn't respond yet. This anticipation is fun. I can see how some guys can use their AA as a tool to motivate themselves to approach.

Here is a tangent from Tony Robbins.
Carly Simon the singer was having issues getting onstage. Panic Attacks. She said, "Just before I go onstage, my heart starts racing, i start sweating, my breathing becomes shallow and fast, and thats when I know i'm having a panick attack and I can't go out there.

Bruce Springsteen says, "Just before I go onstage, my heart starts racing, i start sweating, my breathing becomes shallow and fast, and thats when I know i'm ready, man! It's time to go!"

This has been working for me lately:


Hey! Usually i give her a nickname or something like that base on the conversation we had if she is a teacher mrs. Whatever her last name, just something distinctive that she mention in the conversation, a great time with you at the club, but please do me a favor and stop!

hb stop what:


PUA thinking about me and smiley, i bet you are doing it right now...

hb, you are so smooth


Pua and you are so real, i usually get bored dancing with girls after 3 songs, but you kept me entertain, what i like about you is that your are real, happy and you do not care what people think, you are yourself... Even if i do not bang you i would still would be your friend...

hb.. omg i just met you what make you think you will bang me i am not that easy

pua i never say you were, but i am extremely charming, lol!


hb..lol!Or some stupid shit!

pua time for the boring questions but they are important to me: Do you smoke? do you have kids? what do you do? spit or swallow j/k

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So after the text posted above, I waited a week before contacting her. I did run into her at her work though, but she was busy and couldn't chat but said "I'll text you later" She never did.

After a week I sent her a message asking a playful question about traveling into the future. She replies that she would go to the 1960's or 20's. I said "Lol, that's not the future, silly" and her only response was "oh dang sorry, I could swear it said past... hehe...oops" never gave me an answer.

I was thinking about giving her a hard time about not actually answering the question, but I know it's not a good idea. What I'll probably do is wait another week. This girl is going through some relationship issues I think which could be distracting her. but still she seems real lazy. only once has she initiated a convo. Any ideas?

I'm very much in favor of the direct approach. It quickly tells you if shes interested, if not, onto the next one. In this situation I would have used a:

"I'm only nice when its not a race, since we both know nice guys finish last "
Her: haha blah blah blah
You: "(response to what she said, then:) You should tell me about some more stores over coffee tomorrow "
She'll either ignore it, which is a no, otherwise she'll give you a yes definitely. At which point you verify a time and place for tomorrow

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