ok so i met this girl through an old friend thats a girl she tells me to add her on facebook because she lives here in this new town that i moved to... well after 30 min of me adding her she texts me up and seem so interested so we be chattin away..

a few days later we go out for drinks and she insists that i come to her house and we drink some more.. and this girl was all over me like crazy and she hb8, so we be partyin all night and i get laid like 4 times and even then in the morning before she takes me home. It was a fantastic night for me..

now she barely texts me and i try to call her today and she not answer or call back..

wtf was all that about? i mean she was totally into me that night then BAM its over?

is this a game? she fuckin with me?

i just never had that happen to me b4 i think she is just testing me or something im not sure..

im really into this girl and dont want to mess it up if i havent already

any help from the experts would be great!

did you build a lot of repore with her prior to getting laid? EIther way immediately stop contacting her freeze her out for at least a few days (not more than 5) ...

give more info, how many times have you seen her? when was the last time you talked? mab ur being clingy

this was the first time i ever met her she came on to me and SHE was actually being clingy i mean all over me and telling me how precious i am and how sexy she thought i was.. even the next morning we layin in her bed and she making me hold her and stuff..

im not a clingy person and i do alright with women but this is something ive never encountered before..

i did txt her that evening and this is how it went.

me: I had so much fun with you last night!

her: Oh I had with you also! Been at the water park with my little girl all day.

me: Nice! It was a good day for that, so hot out today

havent heard from her since... the day she brought me home she told me to call her later but i didnt until today but she didnt answer and i know she see my missed call because she gets on facebook with her iphone and she been on there.

before we actually met she acted very interested in me in txt and she even called me once, while im with her that night she acted crazy about me then thats it..

i guess i should just freeze but you say not more than 5 days well what do i do on the 5th day?

what if she trys to contact me b4? do i respond?

i really want this chick i think she could be a winner, i think her sudden steps back have made me mad attracted to her..

well this bitch better watch out... cuz i have NEVER failed in the game (well at least i havent since ive learned a little) im going turn up my game a little.

still this is one that i havent ran into..

She's got a kid? It sounds to me she used you for some good fun, but doesn't want anything serious. Which can be good if this suits you. So yeah, showing her you're not clingy or looking for a relationship should be ok.

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how would you suggest i turn this around on her and make her want me?

like when do you think i should try to contact her?

No, I think you should freeze her out for a while, and (if she doesn't contact you) just contact her casually, like it's no big deal you've slept together.

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Give it a week or at leas 5 days, i misread your question.

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thanks txacoli, yea im not going to contact her for a while i think she will come back around..

[quote="nethead"]this was the first time i ever met her she came on to me and SHE was actually being clingy i mean all over me and telling me how precious i am and how sexy she thought i was.. even the next morning we layin in her bed and she making me hold her and stuff..

im not a clingy person and i do alright with women but this is something ive never encountered before..

i did txt her that evening and this is how it went.

me: I had so much fun with you last night!

her: Oh I had with you also! Been at the water park with my little girl all day.

me: Nice! It was a good day for that, so hot out today

havent heard from her since... the day she brought me home she told me to call her later but i didnt until today but she didnt answer and i know she see my missed call because she gets on facebook with her iphone and she been on there.

before we actually met she acted very interested in me in txt and she even called me once, while im with her that night she acted crazy about me then thats it..

i guess i should just freeze but you say not more than 5 days well what do i do on the 5th day?

what if she trys to contact me b4? do i respond?

i really want this chick i think she could be a winner, i think her sudden steps back have made me mad attracted to her..

well this bitch better watch out... cuz i have NEVER failed in the game (well at least i havent since ive learned a little) im going turn up my game a little.

still this is one that i havent ran into..[/quote]

do what she's doing to you, but show her how it's really done.... next time you two talk.... be THE FIRST one to stop replying, wait 3-4 days, if she texts you/call it ignore it.... 4th night... call (leave a voice mail if she doesn't answer) " Hey you! i've been missing you =/... how have you been?".... .... then start testing her for compliance, does she do what you wnat her too?... If she shows you the slightest disinterest, just say, "hey someone just walked in, I have to deal with this right now, I'll call you tomorrow".... then don't call her, wait another 3-4 days... then out of the blue " Hey you, I've been so busy lately, but I think about you all the time!!!!".... conversation, test for compliance, if disinterest shows... find a way to hang up... ignore 2-3 days later...... "hey baby girl, I was thinking about you today =).... I'm doing this really exciting thing this weekend" (don't ask her out, but look for a "oh that sounds like so much fun!) in other words PUNISH her for being a bad girl >_> but always be super happy and loving when you see her.... it'll drive her fucking nuts...



if she likes you she will miss you and like you even more... if she's just a flirt, she will flirt with you get a "high feeling" then think... why doesn't he call me? he was all over me wtf?....

when in doubt think like an alpha... I like you, I want to be with you... but if you disrespect me, then you can go fuck yourself until your ready to behave..., I can replace you in a heartbeat. (you may even have to risk LOSING her for good, to get her)


Edit: IN MY OPINION it is NEVER a good idea to game one girl at one time... you need to think rationally and gaming two at a time keeps you from getting too emotionally attached

Goog advice man, I really like it! I sometimes struggle with push pull, so this is very useful! ^^^

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