Umm. You're an idiot.

They're books. At best they're self-help, self-improvement books. Who cares if she reads it. Lend it to her, and then use lines from the book.

Anyway now you pussified it then tell her she's a great friend and treat her like she's your sister.

Thanks for all your advice!

Now I have another problem - a fucking cock block...let me explain...

So nothing happened on that run (I found out that she lives with her boyfriend, who she is not entirely happy with).

Her boyfriend was out on a stag night somewhere else in the country tonight.

Both of us met up with another friend of ours (male) with and another girl (girl B) (these two have slept with eachother in the past and are on and off all the time).

Now this is how it went down...

Few drinks etc...

The girl who I`m gaming (girl A) starts getting drunk and accepting kino from both me and my mate.

He clearly starts to cock block me constantly (he knows I like her), and I KNOW she doesn`t like him much. He tries to kino her loads maybe to piss me off which didnt work.

She was supposed to stay at my place tonight and then he decides to leave girl B walk home where normally he would try to fuck her obviously in the hope to stop my plans.

He wants to come to my place so he can keep an eye on her (my interpretation) so she doesn`t do anything with me. He changes his mind at some point (I think at that point he can`t be bothered with the effort), and goes home.

We are in the cab and girl A says she feels sick and would rather go home. I said "thats ok". When we get to my place I leave the cab and give her a massive kiss on the lips (no tongue), get her overnight bag and go back to the cab to give it to her and give her another kiss on the lips). She`s drunk (me too a bit) and I know would never have done this sober because of her bf.

Just wondering what you would do? If I say to him "stop being a fucking cock block" then i believe he would go to girl A and say "he likes you" which would ruin it. It`s not the first time he has done this.

What do you think?

he's right. and yes it is advice. you did act like a bitch by letting her tell you that it's 'chauvinistic'. are you trying to improve yourself? then say that. don't be apologetic for being yourself. ain't nothing wrong with that. also, don't be turned off by honest and blunt, no bullshit kind of talk. that's indicative of confidence, which is something a lot of the gents here have. Now, you're going to look up david deangelo on youtube. search "david deangelo, on being a man". im not insulting you. im trying to help. or as morpheus says, ' i can only show you the door, you have to be the one who walks through.'

I have to say I think this is really bad advice. You want me to tell her that I`m trying to improve myself??? In other words qualifying why I have the book in the first place. That`s not a good move.

Besides, the situation has long moved on from this now (hence the other posts). I have distanced myself from her and she calls me more (when her bf isn`t around), and says stuff that maybe she shouldn`t.

She called me up yesterday morning and asked if I had 'morning glory'.

When her bf is around she is very careful but she relaxes more when he`s not and says this kind of stuff.

I don`t really care enough about it all (although sleeping with her would be cool - I`m not all that bothered, just using it all as practise really - afterall isn`t that what we all do?)

This way I don`t come across as needy, clingy, nervousness but I do push/pull her and definitely kino a fair bit, while also talking to other girls.

I think my OP made me sound like a spluttering bitch but it wasn`t like that. Some good advice from people in here though!