Me and this girl ive been seeing for a while now were supposed to go on a double date to the movies with her friend and my friend both of which have been dating for 1 year now, so we all know each other.

Me and my friend were going there in the same car and we never really agreed on a set time to meet up, which was a bad idea because we made them wait for about 30-40min. The movie sold out before we get there.

When we get there, my friend talks to his gf, but my girl wont even look at me, the whole time she is ignoring me, doesnt even say hi or anything. She is just sitting there with her arms crossed looking away, like a little kid. Im guessing she was pissed off we were late. This is going on for about 5min, i couldnt even talk to her because of how she is obviously ignoring me. Then my friend starts talking to all 4 of us giving us ideas of what else we should do instead of the movie. She doesnt like any of them. At this point everyone is mad at eachother, so we all agree to just go home.

After we leave I text my girl "thanks for wasting my time, wtf was this shit." Thinking back I dont know if this was a good idea or not.

At least my night wasnt ruined because I met up with another girl after.

My questions are, does she have a right to be pissed of? And was her behavior disrespectful? I think it was, I just want a second opinion.

Also, I obviosuly fucked up so what should I have done in this situation? What should I do now? She didnt reply to my text last night. Until now she liked me a lot giving a lot of iois, lots of hints towards us dating so she didnt have a low interest level or anything.

too be honest with you, you may have been late however it gives her no excuse for acting like a little baby. just don't give her attention and let her know you don't have time for her petty games. your alpha, you have an abundance of women. she will quickly come running back

Agreed - it's one thing to be mad, but acting like a child solves nothing. She might be hot enough to pursue but I for one don't date children.

I guess I will give her one more chance, if she continues this type of behavior I am definitely going to next her.

noir07, what do you mean by just don't give her attention and let her know you don't have time for her petty games? Do I just ignore her until she contacts me first?

Not really a good idea.
But overall, it was her who acted out of line.

MNF is right, she was being rediculas, you should not have been phased by her acting up. If she was ignoring you then let her ignore you, talking to her as if she is a wall is giving her what she wants. Unless you kinda made fun of her, tell her about a problem (such as "there is a cute girl and she is mad at me and I dont know what to do. She is so mad she wont even talk to me. I think that things will get better though. She is a good girl and we have had some fun together. Yeah things will all be okay...) and then thank her for being such a good listener, then give her a hug. The text you sent was rude, and you stooped to her level, you were phased by her behavior. I'm not sure what the best response would have been but you want to show your were not phased maybe "Tonight was a blast! Thanks a million, we should do this again" I dont know tricky spot, but getting angry was not a good idea.

Honestly, if a girl is 30-40 minutes late on a date, I'd be mad too. So I think you lost her there, no matter if her behavior afterwards was right or not....

I think the text was not really a good idea. It plays into her bullshit. Anyways what I would have done was just engage the group n let her sit there annoyed. If she wants to act like a child, let her. Just make sure to start controlling the group. Start joking around n having a good time with your friend n his girl. She was definitely acting like a cunt, n the best thing to do is to let her realize it. If you ask what's wrong or do anything that validates her bullshit, she will keep it up. Its all programming n im sure she has had alot of success with that technique in the past. Its subconscious, but im sure she has done it n had guys be like "aww what's wrong blah blah chase her chase her"know what I mean? If you simply ignore n lift the group up, she will either have to match your state or ostracize herself from the group. After she calms down n realize she's being childish, she will come around. The text sets you back tho, because u just added some fuel to her fire. Her car ride probably was like "he said wtf...blah blah he's the fucking asshole who's late n he has the nerve blah blah blah". If you said n did nothing it would've worked better. Or something playful like "had a great night! you were so talkative n fun :-p" hope this helps. Gl