To further add to what I said above, living in these areas can be a good thing. To be honest this should also be a time of developing some serious inner game. Focus heavy on the inner game, and work on ONE aspect of game at a time. Don't get distracted by kino stuff if you can't even approach without looking away or fluttering. Don't worry about closing if you can't even have a decent conversation. Work one part of game at a time. I think this helps, I'm not expert, but this is just something I came up with to help the rural suburbanites, and the boys out in the sticks. Some layout I follow personally, this may not to everyone. Try each for two weeks; don’t get distracted by ANYTHING else.

Outer Game Layout Plan: (Do each for two weeks to a month, some should be a month minimum)

1.) Approach and Open (Take of month if you have a lot of AA)
2.) Conversation and rapport building/compliance ladder (take a month)
3.) Building Social Circles (Take a month)
4.) Kino/ Sexual stuff (SFT)
5.) Closing
6.) How to set up the dates properly and remain spontaneous.
7.) Other topics that maybe more advance than the things posted here. (Managing Expectations, Lowering ASD, etc.)

You don’t have to follow this to a T, but pretty much this order should be followed, it’s simple, easy to manage and use. If you write detailed journals it’ll help your progress and help you manage things much better. If you can see, these objectives follow a certain flow. Remember ONE thing at a time; don’t get distracted by doing other things. At the same time you could be doing ONE inner game thing at a time. Remember- ONE -don’t get swamped and believe your super man, JUST ONE.

Later I’ll be posting stuff I think a man should work on, and the traits I personally believe he should harness. But first and foremost, take a longer time with these concepts, this could take years, but it’s well worth it. For now I’ll list 5 I believe are most important to game.

1.) Will Power- Having the strength to make a decision, take action, and handle any task that comes up, regardless of inner or outer resistance.
2.) Self Discipline/ Self Control- The rejection of instant pleasure in favor of something greater or achieving a higher goal. (This is simple, it means that if you’re planning to bring a woman back to your house, have enough sense to clean the damn place up, simple ).
3.) Patience- Calming down, and being willing to accept that things take time. NOTHING happens over night; suppress your restlessness in order to do things properly.
4.) Perseverance (Overcoming) - The ability to weather change, hurt, inner and outer resistance, and other difficulties in order to finish a task, EVEN when things become hard. (You’ll find that sticking to things until it finishes greatly improves game).
5.) Diligence- Not out stretching your self, taking things slowly and with thought in order to make sure they’re done right. (This means don’t go fast through any of this shit like speedy Gonzalez and expect it to be done properly. Take your time, do things orderly, calmly. Repeat and repeat activities, drill yourself. If you think you don’t understand something, go back and redo it. Don’t worry about the progress of others, worry about the progress of self. This goes closely with patience, but this is more of don’t become zealous even when you become good, take your time and do it right. )

Do these things in order, do ONE of each at a time, preferably in the order that they are listed in. Take your time, do things right and correctly, if you’ve messed up, don’t fret, go back and retry. Try and retry, that’s the message behind this whole thing, work on one aspect of outer and inner game at a time. No more, no less. Write some of the inner game definitions on the wall, and repeat them daily. People talk about what inner game is, inner game is the combination of Will Power and Self Discipline which combined together is called INNER STRENGTH.

One thing I have on my wall is, “WILL POWER and SELF DISCIPLINE are important assets. I AM DETERMINED to gain INNER STRENGTH and BE STRONG!” It may sound corny, but stuff like this will help you overcome your AA, addictions, and laziness/sloth. It is this that will help you become the person you want to be. Speak your words and they’ll have power. The quickest way to change your psychology is through your words. Anyway I didn’t want to get off on this tangent, it’s just for those guys who are suburbanites/stickboys or guys whose progress is kinda slow. Remember ONE aspect of game at a time, meaning only doing one of each at a time; take a month for the inner game ones. Sometimes it might need longer.

I don’t dare call my self an expert, just things I’ve been doing to help my self get along. Remember to journal all your results down, your feelings, right a field journal, and a journal of feelings. People might laugh at it, but often times writing about past events and how you felt about it can help you to accept what happen. I just recently wrote 10 pages about the embarrassments I put myself through when I was younger, it helped heaps. Thank you for reading this post.

Sincerely,

Gaius