Is it OK to say:
"There are two possibilties. Either we go and this and that on Tuesday, or we go and do this and that on Thursday?"
This way if she is busy one day and is too shy to offer an alternative, at least she has a choice of another day?

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A player and a lover till the day I die.
For me to say that any female is a slut would be the most hypocritical thing I could possibly say.

any tips on date ideas though thats what I always struggle with.
being a student with not much money doesnt help.

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I only give my opinion based upon the knowledge I currently posses.
Tomorow I may learn something new and my opinion might change.

Great post thumper, number closing and having no idea what to do next is definitely a sticking point of mine. My question is this though: Do you ever use the number you've obtained to actually call them? Or is it mandatory (or at least recommended) to set everything up through text?

What about if the girl feels like it would be to scary to meet up? why not use the number to make her more comfortable with you? and then have an increased chance of getting the date when going for it.

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My mind have an idea of what i deserve - i will go beyond it

One thing I love about game is that it is an Art form. Different artists use different colors and strokes. Our experience shapes us and our goals guide us. Ultimately, if someone offers something that is based in their hard won experience and personal application there's nothing you can take away from that. You can't argue with a person's experience. Mr. Thumper has offered a clear and very strong frame. Take the lead, plan ahead, and if she doesn't respond call one of the other 18 numbers you have instead. IMO if a person is out in field regularly opening a lot of sets and their game is tight then the numbers will actually lead somewhere and the girl with be responsive and even try to close you. So the focus for me is always on playing solid game rather than "closing". When you get into game you start to realize that actually numbers are surprisingly easy to get, even from classy dainty ladies and they don't always mean more than a pile of socks. Kudos though, to Mr. Thumper who clearly has a strong program going.

However, I have a totally different stance on phone game. I enjoy talking on the phone, always have. I am busy and travel a lot for work and there are many long distance relationships that I have including my family down south which I maintain using the phone. Also with girls, I am interested in MLTRs.

The lens that I look through is the Mystery Method and Speed Seduction. Phone conversations count towards the 7 hours. For me, in my personal experience, the phone is an excellent way to hit attraction switches, build comfort, demonstrate conversation, elicit emotion states and anchor them, build connection and intimacy, demonstrate autonomy over her world, grounding, and other technical goals.

And then there's phone sex. It is not uncommon for me to have phone sex with an intelligent classy lady during our first conversation. Phone sex is amazing for many reasons here's two
1. You learn so much about the persons fantasies and sexuality it makes you a better lover for them and vice a versa
2. She is now masturbating and thinking about you. If you become a part of her masturbation routine, then she's going to now be carving out a spot in her mind and body for you even when you aren't communicating with her! Think about that.

It's not uncommon for me to meet a girl, build attraction, qualify her, build some comfort and then say I have to leave and say something to the effect of, "Hey, I have to go are you OK with being just friends? I like your personality but I kinda have something going on? Number close and then after a few phone conversations have her literally dripping wet and all like heeyyyyyy when we gonna hang outtttt

My posts tend to run long I will end this one for now and later I will give some more concrete examples and a general guideline of how I use the phone.