I'm very new to all this and am just looking for general opinions on all the different aspects of this specific 'relationship' and what you others would advise against, etc.

Met a chick online about 6 weeks ago and scheduled a 'date' at an entertainment center. We spent a couple hours playing mini golf and pool, during the last game of pool some of her co-workers showed up and then we all bowled a few frames.

It went pretty well and I did some pretty solid kino. They closed at 11 so she suggested we go get something to eat. We spent at least an hour and a half talking, for about the last 30 minutes she was yawning and kept talking about how tired she was but at the same time seemed a little disappointed when I called it a night. I paid for the drinks, games, etc. at the entertainment center and we each bought our own food afterwards.

A couple days later she texted me about a burger for lunch, I'm new in town and didn't really know of anywhere so I let her decide. We get to talking for a bit and apparently her friends hated me, I asked her to tell me the specifics and they pretty much shit all over me. I didn't really care all that much(and neither did she apparently) but it's worth mentioning.

About halfway through eating she mentioned going to the movies(I know, shit job on frame control up to this point. Live and learn), I took out my phone and started searching. I read through the list and she picked one, I didn't care too much either way but picked another solely to not develop the “pushover” syndrome being that I was already pretty far behind the 8-ball(I actually wanted to see the same movie she did, lol...) We scuffled about it but I put my foot down in a playful way and changed the subject. We each bought our own food and I paid for the tickets/random shit at the theater.

Post-movie...as we were walking out she said she was going to her friends to make cookies(long story but I’ll leave it out as this post will already be a novel.)We stayed there until around 2 in the morning and then she drove back to her place where I drove home from there. We spent roughly the entire today together, from about 1 PM to 2 AM.

I had some things going on and didn’t contact her for roughly three weeks, when I did we just couldn’t seem to set up a time to meet so I ignored her for a while. About a week later she sent me a text during the day asking if I wanted to go to a local bar that night(fwiw she also texted the same thing about halfway through the 3 weeks but I didnt get it as I was going through phones.)

I met her at their table and she was with a female friend. After a bit we went out to the porch to meet up with her co-workers(different ones, she's at a new job.) A few minutes after we got there she went to get a drink and at about 10’ from our table two guys walking by shook her hand and introduced themselves, I’m sure you all won’t have much trouble implying the rest… One was a college kid the other some overweight dude that looked to be about 40(we’re both 21 fwiw)

The college kid starting ramping up the kino pretty hard and within a few minutes had his arm around her with her’s around him as well(although I will say it was more of a light touch around the bottom torso that every female does when complying, but still…) She is naturally an extremely extroverted person that tends to just go with things, but it obviously pissed me off regardless. My first instinct was to break it up but the fact that we weren't in a relationship made me feel it would come off as a bit possessive so I let it pan out. Looking back the thought sitting there looking like a bitch was probably the worse of the two. The entire conversation lasted about 10 minutes; afterwards she never even got her drink and just came back to the table.

We later went to another bar, as I was getting another drink one of her female co-workers came up and ordered shots for everyone, she was flirting with me(never even talked to her of DHV'd prior to this) and told me she would pay for my other drink I was getting too but I refused as I would of felt like a bit of a low life for accepting it. She then starting getting more blatant with her flirting, calling me "really cute" etc.; I did a small amount of kino and flirted back. They all went to a house party and although I definitely could of fucked her cute co-worker I didn’t want to be “that guy.” We each paid for our drinks that night.

We went back to her place and got a little friendly on the couch. I sucked her nipples with a lot of inner-thigh stroking and all the rest, you get the picture. I whispered in her ear “this dick isn’t going to suck itself”(I know I know, lol. I was a little drunk for real gaming) and she replied “that’s nasty, the only way I could do something like that was with like…a boyfriend”. Pretty sure I could of fucked her on the couch but didn’t, I never even touched the bf comment.

We want up to her bedroom but just “cuddled” the rest of the night. I started caressing her breasts in the AM and slowly moved downstream, as I got close to the va-jay-jay she turned over so I froze her out and turned back over. Within 5-10 seconds she turned around to put her head on my chest and sprawled out on me again. We woke up, she drove me back to my car and that was that. This was a couple days ago and I’m meeting her to have lunch tomorrow during my break.

I’m looking for general input with everything but also about the situation at the bar, is that not fucked up or am I just over reacting? What would others have done?

Also, I heard her talking about her Facebook earlier and decided to look her up today. She has 600 friends but has never asked me if I have a profile, what do you think the reasoning behind this is?

the most that you could do is to know your intentions with her

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I agree, what do you want to happen with her? Because whatever it is, your not activly pushing toward it. Part of the problem is that at no point were you ever leading. It's not, "Oh I don't know a buger place, where should we go?" It's you looking up a high ranked one on yelp and saying, "We are going here, it's one of the best places in town." It's not, "Oh what do you want to do next?" It's, "I'm the man, I have a plan, this is what we are doing".

You need to figure out what you want, start leading whenever possible, and move toward what you want.

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