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Thanks Phate, I'm leaning that way too. I built up some attraction but there was no "close" to speak of so I feel that if I just add her now it's kinda admitting defeat that we're just going to be friends.
What do the rest of you think?
You are over thinking it and worrying too much about looking desprite. If you go to add her she will add you because adding people on facebook means nothing. Just adding on Facebook doesn't creat an expectation of what the relationship will be like. It's up to you too move foreward in the direction you want things to go after that. Remember, the number one way to avoid looking desprite is to avoid being desprite. You really need to not care. The more you care, the more desprite you'll be, and that will leak into everything you do. Remember that you are the man, you are the prize, you have options, you are a high value guy.
Add her, message her with something specific relating back to the other night, If you seeded anything (talked about a cool bar or resturanunt, or activity) then refer back to that to build towards going for a day 2. If you didn't seed anything, then start by cashually seeding something, "Hey have you heard of such and such?" "You haven't? It's the coolest desert place in the city!" Then roll forward, then get back to it later and go for the day 2. Then come back, post your results, and we'll go from there.
CHAT
