Known of this HB9 for a while. Never was particularly interested. She has a BF.
She works for intramural sports (she's really into them), and after a couple weeks during which she was monitering my games while I played great but never said much to her, she opened me.
I kept it cool, because I knew about the BF and still really wasn't that interested.
At a party a couple nights later, she shows up with friends (no BF), sees me, and runs right over to me and hugs me.
I decide to run some game, goes well, she asks me to smoke a cigarette with her.
I do. We talk about where we grew up, then some other girl comes over and CB'd me by dragging the girl away. HB9 literally was staring back at me, longing, as she was dragged.
Next party, I see her (not with BF again - in fact, I've never seen her with her BF). She again runs up to hug me. Says to me, "You're like my BFF now, and you owe me a cig!"
I turn it on her, calling her buddy, and say she should be a good friend and give me a cig.
She has none.
I get a cig from another friend, let her light hers off mine, then I tell her I'm busy with some shit for the party, I got to run... don't see her again that night (it was a concert i organized, so there were like 1000 people there fyi)


I usually have a good sense when there is interest, like a feeling in my gut everything is right, and I get that when I'm talking to her.
What's your read on this HB?
Is it worth the effort to steal her from her BF?
Regardless of interest at this point, I have DHV to her thus far.

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any girl is worth stealing from a boyfriend as long as you are interested in her and taking the extra steps to steal her. as a matter of fact you are doing her a favor because you are probably better than her boyfriend so keep that mind frame, search up on boyfriend destroyers and put them to use

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Yeah, I've been reading a few. I have a hard time using canned material, but a lot of the shit I do off the cuff is similar to that.

I was basically wondering if you can spot any IOIs in my vague description.

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no not really, shes only running up to you and hugging you everytime you see her

and if you are wondering yes im being sarcastic, pursue it

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

The only chicks that have ever hugged me without me getting laid are relatives.

Maybe she's crazy..

Crazy women need lovin' too. Especially when they look good. Just keep the knives away from her.

And do her in a neutral location, or your place only. You know just in case she really has a boyfriend, she's not too bright and he's the jealous type. Nothing that will blow your moment of pleasure like getting your head bashed in at an inopportune time.

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haha, good point.
My only deterrant was the fact that she tried to call me her "best friend" and I wasn't sure how to take that. (I did turn it on her though).

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you have to use kino alot now since you mention that, let her know you dont want to be just friends without actually saying it, let your actions speak for you

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

I don't see that as a problem.

You ever head the old truism about proximity is the biggest factor when it comes to getting laid. Another way to describe it is commonality.

Women are quite sexual creatures at certain times of the month. Remember that. It takes some men forever to learn it, and some men never learn it. If you can be around during those times, and get her to a private place you're chances of getting laid are almost assured no matter how she chooses to describe you in the short term (unless the guy is just a total loser that doesn't get it and then he's usually not around anyway).

Oh one more thing about those certain times of the month. Sometimes it's better to leave them alone as well. In that regard women, especially the younger variety, are alot like the weather. And getting with them is sort of like being a decent weatherman. If she aint going for it, just wait for the storm clouds to clear, and plan on coming back on a sunny day.

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and by those times of the month, are you referring to before or after hell week?

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

both, either, during, lol, depending on the girl. Some crave it THROUGHOUT, even when they are being bitches. Then it just gets a little "rough", lol.

Oh, and b/f? What b/f? Is he even flesh and blood? Or a figment of her overactive protective friends planting him in her brain?

Yeah I was thinking the same thing.

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It's been my experience that before, and believe it or not during seems to be the most active time for women to crave sex. Then the tension starts to build again after their period.

Makes sense biologically, since this is the time the egg has reached its destination and when they're most irritable.

You know some women are capable of such wide mood swings. You see 'em one day they're one way, then you see 'em again in the next week and they almost seem like a different person. It can be confusing.

So if you match when you see a particular girl to these monthly cycles you can increase your chances. And when she's out of cycle you know everything's going to be a stretch.

So guys, always pay attention to when a particular woman is on the rag and remember it occurs about every 28 days or so.

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What Starbuck is saying is totally right. It is all about evolution and how we relate to other animal species. Women have the same drive as females of many other species, to keep a bf/husband that will be a good provider, and trick him into thinking that offspring are his, while at the same time, going off and sleeping with all the good male candidates, that will provide better genes for making the kids with.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Yeah..

And a man can learn a lot from a woman.

Like how to have your cake and eat it too.

That's why I say marry discounts, and fuck premiums. Unless you're rich and like parting with your money, slaving for a depreciating asset or something.

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You should watch the documentary "Why Sex"

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