| Here is how you get out of the friend zone...stop being her friend. I mean lose this girl unless you really want to be friends with her. I have girls who I am really good friends with where I used to want to fuck them, but instead became friends with. With these girls tho, you have to realize friendship is what you are getting from them, and be fine with it. If you keep wanting to fuck her u will just make the sitch weird. You know what I mean? Tell her to fuck off in june. Or you could have her out, cover her, n not get laid. I don't mean to sound brutal, but I think if she wanted to fuck you, she would've at some point in the two years she knew u. Next if a girl tells u she has a bf n he is in another state or country or whatever...she's fair game n will almost always cheat. Girls that keep long distance relationships, in my experience, just like the idea of a bf. You def should not have backed off. That's why she fucked the other guy n became your friend. If she was acting like she was into u, but then told u she has a bf, she just wants u to make her forget about him. If you really knew how many girls cheat you would be astonished. My roommates and I all have ex's n old fb's who will cheat on whatever guy they r with for us. That's just how it goes sometimes. Granted...they know we wont be weird about it n can just have fun...but that's a dif subject. If a girl tells u immediately she has a bf, she isn't into you...if she's into u n tells u that when u start messing around, its just another version on lmr. Blast through that shit n get the girl. I think you are probably done on this one...unless you can get an extreme jealousy card going.
This will require ALOT of advanced movement, but ill give u a strat...first go get 3 fbs. These will all be your pawns for the french girl. When the french girl comes, you should really overbook yourself with the 3 fbs. This means if the french girl is there for a week. 3 nights you are with each one of the fbs, with the possibility of two nights per girl hanging in the air with the fbs. Next, when the frnch girl gets there, act excited to see her be welcoming, fun, and FLIRTATIOUS. She will be thinking "ya he's into me what else is new" That's good at this point. Then make her feel at home, get her set up n everything. The only issue is, that first night, you already have a date scheduled with fb1. Now make it seem like fb1 is cool n fun, n u like her, but u rnt into being tied down by any girl "unless they bring the ropes". Be sexual, just not towards her. She will give u some shit, but tell her you really are excited she's there n you have a fun day planned for u two tomorrow (actually have a fun day planned for u two, but this time, she's paying her own way). You should've already had fb2 scheduled for night two. This means you have a great day with frnch girl, but u have to cut it short because another girl, different than the 1st night girl wants u n ur gonna chill with her. Don't let french girl know this til a couple hours before, but its already planned n she is a cool girl (fb2). At this point french girl is pissed. She is so heated because she came all this way n ur basically blowing her off. Remind her that you two spent an amazing day together, and that you already had plans with this other girl. After night 2 french girl may be debating whether she should stay or not that's fine. Because today you have another cool day lined up, n tonight you are taking her to a club or something fun. Guess who's also meeting you at the club?? That's right fb3! Fb3 should be the best looking/one that is into u the most. That's because u don't want her giving u shit for bringing french girl. Also, fb3 may get jealous n that's perfect because she will be more aggressive towards u in front of french girl. Also french girl has been there for 3 days n u have been with 3 dif girls. Hopefully by day 4 u have built up enough jealousy in her to reframe yourself as a sexual being, and not a friend. Day 4 is when u have a great night planned for just the two of you. This will be the night to capitalize on french girl. Abondon friendship yet remain close. You can start to game her a little bit, but u don't have to pretend u don't know her or something. Do you know what I mean?? Anyways if that doesn't work...fuck it, hook up with the other girls. Bring them to ur place n smash...if she's not fucking u, rub it in her face other girls r.
Problems that could arise: she could be super pisses u r not chillin with her. Also, she may start calling u a player or whatever (just say, you are looking for the right one, so you are giving everyone an audition, or something c&f like that). Getting 3 girls for 3 dif nights may be an issue for u as well. Basically, getting the french girl will require ALOT of craziness in my opinion. If you believe she is worth it, I think this is a good game plan, but still it will be very difficult.
You will need to blow her off, but be apologetic while remaining firm in the blow off.
Good luck, post how you play n how it turns out!
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