Alright so heres the story

Theres a girl from my taekwon-do class i've been gaming off and on for a while and we've recently started to have some decent conversations on facebook(we get on well in class aswell of course, but cant chat too much there). I've been framing sexually quite a lot and its always went very smoothly. Bottom line is, shes definately interested.

Thing is, im still fairly nervous being alone with a girl especially if im supposed to be the one entertaining. Some alchohol would deffo make it a easier, but thats a bit of a sleazy tactic in my home.

The question is, since we've never been on a date or hung out just me and her, should I try and get us some public alone time first or just shoot straight for the final goal and get her to mines to "watch a movie" or w/e?

I like bringing girls to my house (I have a pretty sick house). For this situation tho, id say invite her to grab a drink with you. Its no pressure cause you are both at a bar. It loosens her up cause you will both be drinking fyi its jot a sleezy tactic lmao. Finally, it gives you an upbeat SPAM where you can turn onalot of her senses and create a good experience. I don't know why you would be nervous to have a girl alone with u, but whatever. Also there are no sleazy tactics or sleazy players. There are just winners, and those who justify their losing by their 'morals'. You do not want to be the latter. Good luck, n happy hunting

completely agree.

and it sounds like he also wants some time with her in public to build up his comfort with her before your alone.

there is nothing wrong with being nervous about being alone and entertaining a girl, just don't avoid bring her back because your not comfortable alone with her in private. The only way your gonne become comfortable in that situation is practice.

so take a 100 girls back to your place to entertain them. see what works, remember what doesn't. thats the only way your going to get comfortable in that situation if your not already.