My friends and I have a tradition of going to this same bar every thursday night to hear a buddy play music. There is this girl, Megan, who is also there every Thursday. I originally didn't know her when we first started going. She would always just show up by herself and go hang out with some other friends I know at their table. This girl is one of the sexiest and gorgeous girls I've ever seen. I'm sort of a shy guy so I never introduced myself for the longest time, plus she's a little quiet too. Then, finally, a mutual friend introduced her to me the night of my birthday and it became obvious that she was into me. She was very flirty to say the least. Another week or 2 went by and myself and 2 friends joined her at a table late in the night when she was sitting there alone. We, again, hit it off good, making each other laugh, and being flirty. I told her that I wanted to eat at the restaurant that she was a manager of sometime and she said that I should call her ahead of time to make reservations. Not having her number I made the clever move of saying ''well how am I suppose to call you if I don't have your number?'' From that point on we would text "flirty" things to each other every now and then. Then one thursday she ended up coming home with me and some friends. Once my other friends left, Megan stayed with me and we hooked up. Halfway through the night she started saying she should go.....because she was engaged.....nice. But she hinted that our night was to be continued. I like to think of myself as a good guy. I don't wanna mess with a girl thats involved with another dude. It's shady I know. But, even though we haven't done anything sexual since then we still see each other every week and flirt and she talks about how much she wants to do me and how hot I am and that maybe when her guy is out of town again we can do something. I'm also starting to really like her emotionally because we connect on so many levels other than just attraction. In fact, I've fallen head over heels for this girl...Her "fiance" is never around and apparently they've been engaged for like 3 yrs or more so I'm starting to wonder if they really want to go through with marriage. I've heard he just plays Call of Duty all the time. Like I say, I know this is making me a complete dick to continue talking to this girl, but I can't help how I feel for her. I don't know what to do...I know everybody's just gonna say find another girl or forget about her, but it's not that easy. I see her every week. And in my opinion this girl is special because I've been single for a long time now, waiting for someone I truly want to be with to come along and this is her. Others have come and gone bc they didn't have that spark that pulled me in, but this girl has it. But what the hell do I do? She's even sent me dirty pics of her....it's killing me. Also, I know people are gonna say she's probably a slut and why would I wanna be with someone who cheats, but I'm just wondering if her relationship just isn't what it use to be with her guy, but I feel like she believes that since shes already gotten engaged and so use to being engaged that there's no turning back now and that she has to stay with him. I need this girl in my life. It's killing me. How do I get through to her?

Just say to her. ''Its me or him''

Wait for decision

Then either u are with her or u left her.

U are getting feelings for her, so emotionally you will go through a hard time if she remains undecided and thats why u must make this quick and clear. Give her clear option.

Chasing girls with boyfriends that u love, is rough.....And i know it...

Goodluck!

PS: Give me her naughty pics.

J/k

I disagree. I think that since she's been with him for 3 years and you're as of right now probably a temporary amusement or source of excitement/entertainment in her life that you'd end up on the bad end of this deal. No girl and no pussy.
Build on it, get past the "we're just about to meet up and fuck" stage and get into a stage where you actually hangout with her on a regular basis and do activities. But make sure she's interested in you in that way first; she could just want a good lay on the side. Sometimes girls are just as heartless as we can be.

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