I consider myself a solid gamer when I am in the "zone" per se, but I have no idea what happened last weekend. I was out of town, and I will be moving to this city in 3 months. I went out alone on Saturday night, which I NEVER do, but I had no option since I went out of town alone. I used a perfect opener which was "Hi, I am not from around here, where is a cool place to go?" Surprisingly, a great opener! I am not for lying when gaming, but this one I may just overuse when I move to the city. Long story short, I met a lot of people that night. After hanging out in one place, I decided to leave and I opened up a 3 set with the same opener. It turns out the girls go to the same school and they invited me to party with them. After some DHV DHV DHV neg neg neg kino kino kino I walked them to the Valet and exchanged numbers.

I told my target to text me when she got home. So at 330 AM I text her "are you home?" She replied with OMG! I was going to text you right now as well...

We exchanged a few texts, and then I told her to come to my hotel. She told me I will as long as you do not take advantage of me. I replied with Don't worry, I have my chastity belt on. (I Mean come on, you are coming over at 4 AM right?)

So she got to the hotel and we talked a bit, she asked me if I have a GF back home and I told her no, and we talked some more and NOTHING happened. She spent the night and we had breakfast and went our own way (I had to go to the airport) That night she text me to see if I was home safe and I told her yes etc. She text me if I have Facebook, and I told her yes, and that I would add her tomorrow off of my computer. So she said why not my phone? I didn't have a good response, except that I responded with I don't think I can. So I added her to my FB and sent her a text "The girl that shows up repeatedly in my pictures is not my GF, she is one of my best friends." (and she really is, and nothing else but a friend) The target replied with "riiiiiiiiiight" and we text a few times back and forth and it seems as if it is cool now, she replies to texts etc. Although she has not initiated texting in the last 2 days.

Before I left, she told me how she would teach me Spanish etc, and I told her I would teach her my language. So yesterday I was thinking how to game her, and I thought of 2 things via texting:

1) Text her, If you were a drink, what would you be and why?
2) OR Language word of the day "...."

Both are non intrusive and interactive. I didn't do either, but she ended up "liking" one of my FB posts, so I texted her it's late she should go to sleep etc... text a few times and I told her how every day, we should text each other the word of the day.
But that just seems bland.

SO on a game level, I was thinking of initiating word of the day in the mornings to her until Friday. By rule, I do not respond to texts or calls from targets from friday night to sunday evening. and hoping the freeze out of two days will ger her wondering why hasn't he text these 2 days?

What do you guys think? Also what should I have done differently, or how should I play from here on out. Thanks


but I do not feel the vibe

I think you didnt play this girl really well and you missed all the IOIs she was giving to make your moves go further.

So the girl came to your hotel at 4am, a chick would not do that for someone who she considers to be a friend, but someone for a long term relationship or a one night stand. When she said "I will as long as you do not take advantage of me", she wasnt being serious about it but you took it very literally. she was flirting with you, being teasing (IOI).

Every guy know that when a girl asks a guy if they are single or has a GF, that is a definite IOI.

So you had 3X IOIs (and probably some more unknown ones) which was enough for you to have sex with her that night before your flight.

I think it was hard for the girl not to believe that the chick in your fb pics was not your GF. by placing this piece of evidence and the thing you've got going on i.e. word of the day texts. both ideas allowed her to come up with a few hypothetical motives you have.
1. you are treating her like a genuine friend and nothing more.
2. You showed her that you're not sexually interested in her even though you like her
3. she thought you were a player who likes to know alot of girls.
chicks put together pieces of evidence and add them up to one conclusion, thats the way they think and work.

bottom line, you should have been more direct and sexual with her to begin (can try to more of those things now with her and might get a chance with her). you should have chosen the first text about what drink would one be. i think it really doesnt make any sense not replying to girls on certain days for the wrong reason. but they contacted you, and you not responding back is very impolite. PUA is not about disrespecting women but becoming what they look for in a lover and adapt to their hidden desires.

Hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

Great reply. Thanks. We kissed before we left, so I will see what happens, but how should I proceed with this one? She IS in another city. I will be in Vegas in a couple of weeks, should I fly her in? now that may be overly IOIing no?

In retrospect, I think, i KNOW you are right, I must have chickened out I guess..

lol you missed that bit of info about the kissing.

i would try and make the convos more direct and flirtatious but not too sexual for abit. it's definitely too much of interest for you to fly her in, but if you do it right, and it would be cool if it's true, you could say to her that you're coming to her city to see some friends or you're on business and that you two should meet up for a drink.

continue your interaction with her but dont just focus on her. you're gonna be in vagas man. people say that when you're in vagas, you could become who ever you want to be. im sure there are some sexy show girls you can game.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

Thanks man, there is no shortage of girls at all. I am over my player days, so I use my powers for good now. I like her because she keeps me on my toes and has no problem calling me out on it. FINALLY a girl with a brain and balls (metaphorically of course, OH CRAP! maybe that is why she didn't want to hook up )

I also forgot to mention another thing, in the morning, I think it was, or at night before we slept, she said something about not having sex, and I told her "It is a good thing we didn't, because I wouldn't have called you back." Now this line, has NEVER failed me hahaha let's see what comes of it. How do you guys interpret that line?