Hey guys,

So applying the techniques I have picked up from you guys and other PU material, mainly cat string and showing indifference, I have managed to pull a girl who is really into me now . Now the only thing I'm concerned about now is i don't want to become needy sounding or anything but we already have started it. I mean its not just me she also keeps saying how much she misses me and loves me and needs me an she loves hearing it from me but I also do the same thing and I'm worried I might sound too clingy? Or that shell get bored now that she has me

Since I've already said it and she knows it now i guess I can't go back and pretend to be mysterious and keep her guessing right? The only thing I can think of doing now is to just not say It as often and talk normally. So when I do say it she appreciate it more right. So I shudnt say love u everyday right?

Thanks for any help guys. Ive not had a long relationship before so could use some help on making this my first!!

When in a relationship, girls actually like to hear you care about them and that you miss them. You're only proceeding with the PUA-material when you keep a girl as a Friend with Benefits and still want to bang other chicks.

IMO there is nothing wrong with telling a girl that you love her, it doesnt even matter how often you say it, she will appreciate it. I would however advice you not to see eachother too often though. I made that mistake, and by this I let my friends fall for this girl. Also if you wont see eachother that frequently, it will be more exciting to meet up again instead of seeing eachother everyday, which can get boring pretty quickly.

Follow your intuition! Do you love her, if so, tell her...there is nothing wrong with that...as previously stated though, try not to be so available all the time, let her know that you have a life that revolves around more than just her....NOT ASIDE FROM HER...because she is included, but there are other things as well.

Other than that, keep her on her toes with things you want to do with her, don't let it become repetitious but also, don't put too much thought into this, it should flow I believe.

I guess what I would ask you is....what are you trying to accomplish with this relationship, are you in love with this girl or just trying to game her into thinking you are the man without actually falling for this girl?

Relationships aren't game's! Just my two cents!

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Hey thanks for the replies. I will take good advice from it ESP keeping it non repetitious and to not spend all day with here etc. I actually really like this girl so am not trying to run game on a relationship!! I only joined the forum and read up on pua material so I can find one girl!!

Are there any good threads on strengthing the relationship in the early stages. After dating a few weeks and a few lays kinda timeframe I'm talking about, as after this time things normally run out of steam, kinda a sticking point.

I don't remember where I read this, but one thing about relationships is this.

Don't do or give her something just because it makes her happy. Do or give because it makes YOU happy to see her happy.

That way, you're never investing too much in her as you're actually doing yourself a favor (being happy) by making her happy.