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Why is that such a big deal? He's an ex for a reason. How often does she speak to him? If it's just every now and then, it's fine. If it really bothers you, ask her how would she feel if you were talking to your ex all the time. See how that goes and then decide on the next step. Cheers!
Exactly this. What exactly bothers you? He's just another male friend at this point. They're not together any more. There were guys before you, there'll be guys after you, so you might as well accept that fact. If you really don't think you can trust her, then that's the real issue here. If it's your own insecurities, then it's time to relax - she has her own life, you have yours, get over it!