Alright i've been talking to this girl on Facebook and at first I would just comment on her statuses and stuff and i'd get a lil feedback. On her birthday I commented on her wall and then after a couple of responses she asked me to message her my number. I did but it took her a couple of days to finally text me.

Then when we were texting she asked me to send her a picture and then she replied asking how come we're just now talking and that she had to be the man and ask me for my number.So I told her "well imma be the man now and take you out next week" and she replied saying "i'd like that. your too damn cute" so the next couple of days we've been texting and i've been throwin a couple of negs here and there.

But the other day she said "goodnight sorry i'm getting sleepy" and i was like "i understand. just text me first thing in the morning" she said ok. but the next day i didn't get a text, so that evening i texted her saying "hey" and i got no response. And today she put up a post on her wall with a sad face. And commented what's wrong and got nothing. So what should I do??

well it is hard to really understand the overall foundation of the relationship between you two. it is cool sometimes when a girl asks for your number but there is some caution in the air that she might like you but not necessarily. Girls really want men to be men and make all the moves including getting the number.

There seems to be alot of texting going on. It's more dominant and portrays confidence to call. In my opinion i don't think it was a good idea for you to say to her "I understand. just text me first thing in the morning". Sounds very needy and entirely dependent on her which is not alpha male like.

Regarding her fb status, it seemed like you are providing yourself to her as the best friend by jumping in to the rescue as an emotional support. be careful about this otherwise you'll find that you have just entered the friends zone which is a place you dont want to be.

for now, do a little freeze out for abit because she is used to you texting her the all the time and will wonder why you have stopped and she'll be more eager to talk to you. if it so happens that you re-engage with her, perhaps you could change your game and use more positive and negative validation to increase her attraction for you and finally get to the stage of the date and follow on from there.

Hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

thanks and after i freeze her out for awhile should i go straight into the push pull??

definitely man, and then go into comfort rapport and then sexual escalation. dont make the freeze out for too long, couple of days should do.

alright bro thanks