Okay so im new to the forums here. I have read around a bit and picked up some details from people in similar situations as mine.

So the background: Met this girl through a mutual female friend. Now i met this girl out about a month ago and we added each other on facebook and we chatted quite a bit since then. I would always tease her with the cocky and funny routine and neg her like crazy. This worked well and i ended up getting her number after seeing her again. Did the same thing over text.

Eventually called the girl and we hit it off, even though she is extremely shy at first. So i invite her to meet out but she suggests to just chill at my place. So we did and we ended up just hanging out and at the end of the night i kiss closed her when i dropped her off. Got texts almost immediately saying how she loved the night etc. She then arranged to do the same thing a few nights later. Same kind of thing happened. Just chilled and at the end of the night a few kisses.

few nighst later we were supposed to go out with her friends, my friends and a meet up at a club. Her friend ended up getting wasted and took her home. She said come by later and pick her up, which i did. Now i took her home to my place and realised i didnt have a rubber. Dumb i know, so we ended up just giving each other head. We stayed up till the early morning just chatting and laughing about random shit. She did ask some serious questions about my ex's, how i see her etc. I was kinda still drunk at this stage so cant remember the exact details of the situation.

Fast forward to the next few days and she has gone a little cold on me, wont respond to texts straight away. So i dont either when she sends me one. Seems non committal when i asked her when shes free to catch up again. Basically I feel like she is losing interest.

My question is what to do? I've already thought about ignoring her for a few days and seeing what that does. Keep in mind that this girl is quite shy and doesn't initiate things too much. I feel like she likes me, but she is hesitant for some reason. Is it because i didnt follow through all the way? Did i show my interest too much too soon? Shall I back away or ask her out again soon? I havent been hitting her up as much since i got that feeling she is distancing herself a bit and have played it cool. I know I have many questions and its kinda long but this is the first girl i actually have liked a bit in a while after meeting many lately who havent done it for me. Any advice would be great as i dont want to ruin something that could work. Thanks

bump. any advice? Really not sure what to do here.

I was in a similar situation with one of the girls I'm seeing at the moment. What worked for me was reminding myself that I'm the prize at all times. Be busy with your own life and don't over-analyse the situation; by over analysing you're implying that you need to do everything to stop this girl from leaving you, she should be lucky to be with you! You need to be completely comfortable with the feeling that you could walk away at any time if there's something better. Mastering this principle has probably been the most important aspect of my game.
On a side note, especially with girls that you meet through mutual friends, it's important to be upfront with the girl. Having her sleep over and talking about ex-gf's is too much too soon in my eyes. Make sure she knows what your intentions are so you can build up trust. Btw if you're looking for a LTR, state this indirectly, cause you don't want her feeling she got you too easily.