Didn`t know where to post this do feel free to move it.

Ok,

this girl that works in the local shop I have been getting closer to... I think I fucked it.

My mates came down for the weekend and I was telling them what I have learned so far - showed them the mystery method book that came free with The Game. They put the books down and we started playing my ps3.

Then, this girl walked in my house cos I always leave the front door unlocked. I got her a drink and she sat down and noticed these books and started reading them!!!

One of my mates said it was his to save me bbut I didn`t hear him and I admitted they were mine. I said I hadn`t read it and agreed with her that it was sad and chauvinist and laughed with her at the book and that the mystery method had come free with another book.

What should I do now?

How should I respond in the next few days?

I think I fucked it...

Umm. You're an idiot.

They're books. At best they're self-help, self-improvement books. Who cares if she reads it. Lend it to her, and then use lines from the book.

Anyway now you pussified it then tell her she's a great friend and treat her like she's your sister.

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Dont call me an idiot because I`m not. That`s not advice you moron.

Don't know what to do about your situation until you see her again really..

But just to add, it was one of my female friends that lent me The Game and told me to read it in the first place. Its just a book at the end of the day!

LMAO! This is pretty funny...

If it ever happens again, which it probably won't, just own it. I've gamed girls, had them come back to my place, jump on my computer, check out my bookmarks and see this site. They ask what it is, and I tell them. I've left "The Game" out in plain site. Looks like a Bible. When they ask about it, I explain it to them.

In my experience, they've always been interested in the whole thing. They ask me to show them some of the things I learned. Of course I don't. My answer is usually, "I've already shown you... How do you think I got you?"

So, in the end, if it ever happens, own it. Confidence is key.

I called her last night and she was running. It went like this...

HER: Hello! (out of breath)

ME: Either you`re having an orgasm or you`re out on a run

HER: Is that doing anything for you?

ME: Yeah, I`m touching myself right now.

HER: (laughs)

Then I hear sheep in the background - she lives in the country

ME: That better not be sheep you`re fiddling with!

HER: (Laughs) No!

A bit of banter about arranging a run with us two.

ME: Well I gotta go now so I`ll let you finish off your orgasm and I`ll see you tomorrow.

HER: Wait, don`t you want to know how it ends?

ME: What ends?

HER: The orgasm.

ME: Ok, I`ll stay on for a sec.

Her phone then cuts out.

Sends me a text that says she doesn`t know what happened and that she`ll see me for the run.

Any thoughts?

Sounds like its on.

Sounds like you are going for a run to the bed. carboload, your gonna need the energy haha!

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Infamous110 = true. it was dumb to call you idiot but why the fuck care? aaaand why care about she read that shit. dont explain it, you may end up in fz. but now you proved she is in control, she has your mind by the balls. dlv because you can't even fuck up without crying. you aren't the goldprize according to you.

AHAHAHHAAHAH.. too true..

about the whole thing though. maybe you should have played it different but it doesnt matter as the phone call is essentially one massive IOI. sounds like a pretty ideal situation to me.
hamatam

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You're good to go bro, clearly there was more attraction going on beyond any issues with the book. And great dialogue with the orgasm talk. I'm going to use that.

But for future reference, you have to own every situation. Next time a girl sees your pick-up book, tell her it teaches men how to meet women without making fools out of themselves.

A long story made extremely short: I met a girl through my buddy's gf. But behind my back she told her "he's a player, he read a book about how to pick up women". Guess what? She was more attracted than ever, because she was turned on that a player would pick her.

When I first made out with her, she stopped and said "I know you're a player and you read a book on picking up women". I said "yah, so what? Do you have a problem with me trying to improve myself? I'm a perfectionist."

I slept with her that night.

Always stay one step ahead.[/i]

Those books are typically read by men who don't have a lot of success with women. They're not really read by players. A good percentage of the guys that read those books are "nice guys", "good guys", or AFCs. Most of them are actually looking for serious relationships, and have to learn how to use casual relationships to that end. Most of the guys that read those books are great guys, they're just boring, uninteresting, or unattractive to women. That's where the books come in. They teach great guys to be interesting and attactive. They don't teach pigs to be bigger pigs. They are already pigs and there's plenty of them out there. They don't usually teach good men to be pigs. If anything, they do the world a favor by making great guys more eligible and attractive. They're just teaching the tricks that pigs and players already know, but teaching them to the men out there with actual value.

You don't need to/shouldn't explain all of this to a woman, but it should be in your frame of mind all the time. Next time you won't feel the need to be defensive, because you have nothing to apologize for. You are doing her a favor by trying to be more attractive. You're a great guy, you just want to help more women realize it.

I have to disagree. I bought both the MM and the Rules of the game when I got out of a 3 year realtionship to get back into closing. This is just the context, the real point I want to make is that I have several friends who are pretty big players and since I bought these books every one has borrowed the books to help their game. Before reading them none of these guys would have considered themselves PUAs at all but its by learning the psychology and more advanced specific techniques that make a player a PUA.

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Thanks for all your advice!

Now I have another problem - a fucking cock block...let me explain...

So nothing happened on that run (I found out that she lives with her boyfriend, who she is not entirely happy with).

Her boyfriend was out on a stag night somewhere else in the country tonight.

Both of us met up with another friend of ours (male) with and another girl (girl B) (these two have slept with eachother in the past and are on and off all the time).

Now this is how it went down...

Few drinks etc...

The girl who I`m gaming (girl A) starts getting drunk and accepting kino from both me and my mate.

He clearly starts to cock block me constantly (he knows I like her), and I KNOW she doesn`t like him much. He tries to kino her loads maybe to piss me off which didnt work.

She was supposed to stay at my place tonight and then he decides to leave girl B walk home where normally he would try to fuck her obviously in the hope to stop my plans.

He wants to come to my place so he can keep an eye on her (my interpretation) so she doesn`t do anything with me. He changes his mind at some point (I think at that point he can`t be bothered with the effort), and goes home.

We are in the cab and girl A says she feels sick and would rather go home. I said "thats ok". When we get to my place I leave the cab and give her a massive kiss on the lips (no tongue), get her overnight bag and go back to the cab to give it to her and give her another kiss on the lips). She`s drunk (me too a bit) and I know would never have done this sober because of her bf.

Just wondering what you would do? If I say to him "stop being a fucking cock block" then i believe he would go to girl A and say "he likes you" which would ruin it. It`s not the first time he has done this.

What do you think?

boom lol this guy (me) isnt a pig i just have no game at all once the dating starts im good but getting there not so good.

and smikes i agree use the book to your advantage the fact that she saw it opens up some opportunities and im not the one to say but be confident always helps i just have probs being confident things always go south with me cuz of exs and what not =/