Lol I used to react bad to every flake

I used to say "I hope you get...*insert way of death* (expect alot of threats to call the police on you with this)

Then I toned it down to ....say she is a dentist

"your a shit dentist" and force a reaction

I do alot Better now and don't react and now I accept that it is a numbers game mindset

But I feel better when react

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Lmao you're a vage Pebble.

I used to be extreme with it also when it came to flakes.

It some how made me feel more satisfied to curse out the flake than to just freeze her out.

But as you said,it's a #'s game.

I've fallen into the pattern of only having 1 option to meet up with.

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REALLY awesome that you share this THANX alot , i have a similar case so its been very helpful

@MisterK-Anytime bro;the post is here to observe.

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This' the update on this sarge.

I've been successfully freezing her out for almost a week now.

She literally has been texting me every other day(yesterday also).

But I havent been replying.

If I do decide to re-text her,it'd be strictly business,"Let's hang out,or end this".

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This made me LOL, sounds a lot like me

@k-loc - Don't give her an ultimatum, for me it's always ended badly. Just say something like "hey sorry I haven't been replying, been really busy lately, let's go XXXX (whatever you want to do with her) soon" and then arrange it. If she doesn't show, NEXT!

Lol I think all puas go through that period of reacting VERY bad to flakes, I have met SO many girls that I had everything in common with , some wernt that hot bu I thought she was my soul mate , then next day I text and it's WEAK! , I was in tears alot of times, I'm Fucked in the head

This one girl nearly smashed my windows for a death hope

The HB9 girl that I had similar situation to the thread, I somehow recovered from texting her "I hope you get out of my country" (she was lithuanian)

But I've had a few girls that I didn't react , recovered an ended meeting an closing,

don't react ,it's not worth it, you can lay them in the future when you do the flake bulk text and pretend to be the phantom

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@Pebble-Well the reason for my ultimatum is because of all the BS.

Im ready to throw in the towel by deleting her contact from my phone.

Lol you're right about lots of us going through the "fuck that bitch" moods after flakes.

I had to lol at your incident with the Lithuanian chick.

I remember having a flake call the cops on me because I cursed her out via text.

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I know it's hard...I've been in the same exact situation and ultimately failed to get the girl back (I only wanted her as a hookup anyway). The best thing to do is to wait...be patient...think of other girls and not let one-nitis get the best of you. Ultimately, once you've got a girl's attention, the more you ignore them the better. Even when you think you've lost them, be strong and think of getting with other girls. One day when you least expect it, she'll crack and nearly beg to meet up.

Allureofthegame-Agreed totally.

One-itis could never happen with this girl.

I've been freezing her out for a week now,dont even remember her besides when I respond to this post.

Still-good advise though.

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The more you go for the meetup and the more she flakes yiu the more stupid/DLV'd/beta you look..

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That's logical. You get rejected and she thinks: "Wow, what a wuss."

1 But doesn't the Gunwitch method involves the man getting rejected many times, aka make the ho say no?

2 And what if you make a lame excuse to meet up with her? Or is it best to be direct?

Your not making sense mate

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lol

When you want to meet up and she flakes(=rejects) then you were DLV-ed. = bad

But on the other hand does Gunwitch say that you gotta keep going for it and keep getting rejected, because that shows confidence. So then it's a DHV. = good.

Those are a bit contradicting I would say, so my question is: Is it better to let her set up the 'dates' or should you?

Good points by Gwiz;I was a bit confused but he cleared it up.

I get the contradiction of certain methods in relation to my case.

It's a fine line between persistent and chasing(desperation).

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Good points by Gwiz;I was a bit confused but he cleared it up.

I get the contradiction of certain methods in relation to my case.

It's a fine line between persistent and chasing(desperation).

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