Right now my biggest problem is the lack of Kino, not only do I feel awkward when using kino but im not even sure how to do it properly... I need some advice here, whats a smooth way of using kino while having a normal conversation?

Also I plan on seeing this girl I havent seen in a while, it would be a little strange to give her a hug or kiss on the cheek, so I was thinking when I first saw her I would shake her hand and say "nice to meet you", this way I start with kino and I feel perfectly comfortable with this, however I want to step it up!

learn palm reading basics and use it as part of a routine.

Try these..


A touch on the arm to get her attention and start a thread/ routine. (use when she is talking to someone else)

Lint on the shirt (my fave). also a slight neg could be used here.
-or could be something in her hair??( slight brush of hair, don't get

creepy)

No matter what you use her response will tell you to go further. Lots of times I get more kino back than I gave. This is a door opening and comfort being built. Good Luck man!

Ya thats nice actually thanks, keep in mind that this will be happening during the day not at a club.

another good way is to make fun of the girls hand-shake

i forget where or who origianlly posted this... (props to who did)

but shake her hand and say "is that ur handshake?"
hb: "yea why etcetcetc"
you: "have u ever heard of a dead fish hand shake? You have one. You need to squeeze a lil harder (keep holding her hand till she squeezes harder)- "there thats better. that appears more confident - now it matches how you walk."
so you will have been touching her hands for longer than meeting with a normal person for the first time

here u can go right into cold-reading routines...

"u know i can tell a lot about u already.... here give me ur hands again and close ur eyes (optional if shes uncomfy - "dont worry i wont do anything weird - u can trust me")
then use cube, strwbry field, or subconcious 4- and make sure to include that she is very confident until she is directly engaged with someone she is interested in - then she gets nervous and shy
(this will subconciously tell her the fact that she is 'interested' in u and that u are aware of it)

cheers

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Since you haven't seen her in a while, she doesn't know that you've transformed into a touchy feely kind of guy.

Right when you meet each other, casually and simply tap her with the back of your hand. Don't make it a big deal, just do it like you're used to doing it with everybody. Do this so when you're kinoing her later on in your interaction, it doesn't just come out of the blue and seem strange.

Then during your conversation whenever she's in a very good state, laughing or really engaging you, just touch her arm again in a very casual way. Keep making her laugh and each time she does you can give her a high five or hug her from the side or something friendly like that.

Hope that helps.

Cool thanks guys, Aceospades12 like the hand shake idea.
And it shouldnt be awkward because I have only seen her twice before so she if I do touch her it would come as a shock. Just a little nervous I guess...

Last week, i was opening a 2 set and kino'd my target (after a while of not paying much attention to her) by looking at her tatoo on her arm, which proved successful. I kinda just went, " Oh didn't know you had a tatoo... my mate has got stars too, but his is better " whilst touching and feeling her tatoo. Another one i like is pretending to fiddle with my ear-ring and asking her to put it in for me... small Kino but effective! Try the ear-ring thing if anyone has one... sometimes i would neg during it by saying she's hurting me or that she has big hands...

Good Luck

search on google, Kino Escalation Ladder

yeah, basically if you havent done it in awhile slowly escalate into it or itll be like "making your move" otherwise, which is pretty AFC. Anyways i have a question, how can you kino when your on a walk with someone? walking with your arm around i unno seems kinda dumb, so what kind of kino is good if your just walking with someone?

Well thats why I asked I dont know how to casually kino, clubs are much easier but anyway I will figure it out.